The Facebook report I sent you the other day was a hit and a lot of you are using it and seeing results!
Now, if you’ve started following the steps, and found your ex to have “blocked you”, “unfriended you” or started posting up pics of themselves with their new love interest, then instead of being sad and thinking it’s all doomed…
BE HAPPY about it.
This is a CLEAR sign that they are BOTHERED by seeing you doing so well… and if they are bothered.. then they must CARE.
After all, if it was any other friend who was posting good things about themselves on Facebook, would they act hostile like this? Why would you act negative if it didn’t bother you?
If you tough it out through this “test” of theirs, you’ll see that they will contact you and things will turn around.
But you need to recognize when your ex is reaching out to you, and give them the benefit of the doubt.
It’s not easy for your ex to do that in the first place so if they happen to change their mind straight afterward or stop contacting, then it’s OKAY.
Your ex just needs TIME to absorb and take all this new change in!
Look, I know what it’s like when you can’t stop thinking about your ex, when you feel there’s a big deadline over your head, that you need to “Do something now”, to somehow get them back or you’ll lose them forever, or they’ll just forget about you.
I will tell you that in my system, the steps within are spaced out very methodically, so the tactics work the most effectively.
You need to know, WHEN it’s best to contact, WHEN it’s best to show interest and WHEN it’s best not to and WHEN to recognise “interest” on their end, or when it’s “something else”.
Being too hasty will make these tactics less effective.
So remember, if you feel “desperate” and on edge because you need to get him or her back quickly… then STOP.
Stop before you pick up your phone and call or text your ex. Stop and think about it before you send a letter or get too eager at the fact that your ex is talking to you and setting up “dates” with you.
Being too hasty will slow your progress or sometimes make you go backwards.
If you’re using Facebook, make sure you have this plan with you to help take you to the NEXT step.
I’ll be thinking of you,
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