15 June 2009 ~ 3 Comments

What Men Want In A Relationship – What Men Look For In A Woman

To many women, men are a mystery in terms of what they want in a relationship and what men look for in a woman. Men are not naturally born to communicate their emotions like a woman can. They tend to bottle things up and keep much of it hidden, this can make sorting through issues and resolving problems in a relationship rather difficult. It may also mean, your man may not be communicating in the manner you want him to, therefore his ACTIONS are going to confuse you.

What Men Want In A Relationship

The truth is men are extremely simple. They only want ONE important thing in a relationship and ONE kind of woman.

This may shock you but it’s something bigger than the need to be appreciated, admired or loved more by their woman.

The number one thing men need in a relationship … is to BE A MAN.

A man is someone admired for his MASCULINITY – when he knows he can protect and provide for his family and/or keep his woman happy!

They want to be or at least want to give off the “appearance” that they are the “alpha” male of the relationship.

This simple concept eludes women because most women “don’t get it” or can’t “relate”. So women tend to want to make their man into a woman by treating them like one.

What Men Look For In A Woman

So what does men look for in a woman?

Here’s what a guy DON’T want:

  • Clingy, needy women.
  • Women who offers no SECURITY in the relationship.
  • Women who doesn’t SUPPORT their man.

Clingy women are one of the worst because this will cause a man to feel restricted in what he can do. Caging a man up won’t make him feel masculine or like a man. Don’t try to have your man on a short leash, eventually he will lash out and leave.

A women who offers no security is one that is inconsistent with her actions. Women who say one thing, do another. Cheat. Make and then break promises. Is just not plain unreliable in a relationship or is just drifting through life.

A man needs to know his woman will be loyal to him and him only. That she can be depended upon and her actions will be consistent. Insecure women bring out the insecurity in the men and this will also make them leave.

Support is very important for a man. They need confirmation every now and then that you’re on their side, and you support them no matter what they choose to do. If it’s sport they like, but it’s something you hate, they’d MUCH appreciated it if you would go to ONE sports game with him or even just listen to him talk about sport. Men really love it when they see their woman putting in an effort to make them happy.

If these are the things men DON’T want, what is it a man look for in a woman?

Quite simply the opposite… “A strong independant woman, who is secure in herself and in her relationship. Someone who SUPPORTS her man and apprecaites his masculinity.”

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3 Responses to “What Men Want In A Relationship – What Men Look For In A Woman”

  1. Angel 20 August 2009 at 4:54 am Permalink

    Why do you want them back? after all, it didn’t work out. STOP BEING PATHETIC and MOVE ON! You can’t control them and they can’t control you! They have made their mind and picked up their stuff (even though it’s broken) and now they are trying to fix it or glue the broken pieces back or whatever like buy a new one. MOVE ON! Stop trying to get your hopes up. It’s really a hopeless cause.

    • Sarah J. 12 July 2013 at 11:50 pm Permalink

      Hi Angel,
      Although this reply is really late and you might not even read it. This is my point of view, sometimes people say things out of anger when they are quarreling. A breakup might be one of those things. However, that does not mean that they don’t love each other anymore. There is hope and not all cases are hopeless.

  2. Chase Chandler, The Alpha Male 23 June 2010 at 4:31 am Permalink

    I think of those three things you listed…support is prob the most important to me. I need a woman who I know has my back. Support not in the financial stance but a way in knowing that she’s got my back. Thnks for the read!


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