30 April 2009 ~ 2 Comments

Make Your Ex Miss You Like Crazy

Want to make your ex miss you like crazy? In order to make your ex miss you, you need to get yourself in the right mind frame.

Here’s what you need to say to yourself:

My ex misses me.

My ex really wants me back.

My ex want to make me jealous.

My ex is testing me to see if I really care about them.

You need to think this way before they will really miss you.

Here are the 4 easy steps you need to follow:

Step 1:

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

You can make your ex miss you by disappearing completely from their life. They will wonder about you as its in our nature to wonder and curiosity will get the better of them.

Step 2:

If disappearing is out of the question, make yourself scarce instead.

Your ex will probably expect you to wallow around depressed, so you need to become elusive.

Get active. Go out a lot. Be seen everywhere having fun or at least looking like you are fine with the break up. You don’t need to start dating people, although you could if you really want. Just don’t expect making your ex jealous will automatically make them come back to you.

Step 3:

By this stage, the message you want your ex to have is you are no longer accessible to them. They broke up with you so they are no longer entitled to all your attention and energy. However, NEVER appear spiteful, rude or vindictive. You still want to show your ex you care about them. Your actions have nothing to do with wanting them back or wanting to make them jealous.

Step 4:

The few times you do get to talk to your ex, make sure you appear upbeat and happy to see them. This shouldn’t be hard. Just think about how much you miss seeing and talking to them. They will see you still care about them and when they start looking for you, you know they’ve been thinking of you!

Once your ex is thinking about you, you have put yourself in a great position. It only takes a few more carefully planned moves to make them fall in love… and once their heart is yours, they’ll do anything to come back to you.

Don’t wait to get back together, you may lose them forever.. get the proven blueprint to win your ex back now.

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2 Responses to “Make Your Ex Miss You Like Crazy”

  1. Cindy 25 February 2012 at 9:49 am Permalink

    My boyfriend and i broke up 2 days ago.. I’m already wondering how to get him to realize he made a mistake and beg for me back. There was no reason for the breakup he just simply said he was tired of being in a relationship. Which was a huge shocker because when we were together he seemed to be obsessive upto the last month. There was a time when things became dead and dry, we did not see each other for 3 weeks. Any advice on how to get him back?

    • Melissa 5 January 2013 at 9:53 pm Permalink

      Cindy,

      First off, you need to completely break off all contact. DO NOT CHASE HIM! This will make you appear desperate, and even though you are, you MUST NOT let him know this. Sometimes a relationship can be going great, then all of a sudden you get told one day that your love needs a break. Some people can and do lose their individual identity within a relationship, and will want time apart to rediscover who they are as a person, not who you both are as a couple. I don’t know anything other than what you said, but it seems like you did nothing wrong. In the meantime, go hang out with friends and family. Get a hobby (aside from wanting to watch his every move). If you’ve wanted to get a new hairstyle or color your hair, this is the best time to do it. If he contacts you, most people say to ignore his calls, texts, and e-mails. It is up to you, but if you do respond, be sure to sound friendly and cheerful, but slightly distant from him. Be vague with an anwer or two if the question is direct and specific. End the contact quickly by telling him you’re busy, or you have an appointment you have to be at. Make yourself a little more unavailable to him, and only tell him just enough of things to tease him. Pique his curiosity. If he is friends with some of your friends, they can do the same thing. Do NOT attempt to make him jealous, though. That could cause him to go jump into another relationship )rebound, also called a band aid relationship). These things rarely work, and will only make both of you miserable if there are mutual feelings on both sides. Your first contact should be to arrange to meet in a public place to discuss the relationship and break-up themselves. Try not to fall apart in front of him. Dress nicely, make yourself even more attractive for this meeting. You might bring up a few positive spots in the relationship, and explain that you do miss those. You can also use this time to find yourself, too. It’s a very delicate mix of “cat-and-mouse”, “hot and cold”, and other elements that will make him wonder what you’re up to, and why he’s not included. But through the whole thing, just be yourself. If he still will not work things out with you after a period of time, you may have to just move on, even though it hurts.


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