Have you been going crazy over an ex boyfriend? Perhaps you want to know how to make your ex boyfriend miss you like crazy. It might feel hopeless or you just want to know if it’s still possible to have any effect over your boyfriend, but I’m about to reveal my secret to driving a man crazy over you.
The tips I’m about to share are extremely powerful but also simple. However, people overlook them because they are so simple!
Tip #1 – Don’t call him or answer his calls immediately.
You need to show your ex boyfriend that you’re not readily available anymore, because the more available he perceives you to be, the less he will miss you or want to talk to you. Anything that is seen as rare or scarce is valuable! And that’s what you have to do to get him missing you like crazy!
Tip #2 – Value yourself and show it off to the world.
The more rare someone is, the more value is placed on it. BUT, if you don’t believe you are valuable, how can you act as if you are? This step goes hand in hand with Tip 1 because in order to KEEP his interest for you as high as possible (and keep him missing you for as long as possible), you need to show him you’re VALUABLE.
You do this by taking care of your physical appearances. Go all out and improve on the way you look and not only will you FEEL 10x more confident, you’ll appear 10x more valuable to anyone who lays eyes on you.
Tip #3 – Turn yourself into a social butterfly.
The most beautiful thing in the world means nothing if no one is there to see it. So you MUST go out and go out often! Not only will you become exposed to a lot of new people and new experiences, you will gain confidence the more you do it. We as human beings, strive on human interaction, so the more you communicate and put yourself out there, the more alive you will feel.
I hope you won’t take these tips too lightly. They all revolve around the concept of scarcity. The more rare something is, the more others will do to obtain it.
Become that rare diamond that your ex boyfriend is just DYING to get his hands on. Remember in order to make your ex boyfriend miss you, you must remove availability and work on appearing valuable to him.
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My ex and i broke up few weeks ago. I think he was seeing someone else while we were together. We broke up with a huge fight because he didn’t share any responsibility to talk like an adult and disrespect me by ignoring my calls or talking to me. After not talking to him few weeks after all i have said to him (I did tell him that he is terrible and he is not a person i can talk to ever again and lot of bad words that he really deserved it) but now all of a sudden he did wrote me that he miss me a lot on msn,and try to have simple conversation on msn, and he sent me few messages saying that he is happy that he heard from me when i reply his simple messages without getting mad or upset in a simple way too so, now i worry that he thinks that i made peace with him which i did not and i don’t even expect him to be back with me… Only i think he can try to say “sorry” but he doesn’t get it. I am only wondering does he really have this behaviour because he doesn’t say much but is all about being sorry or what?
My boyfriend broke up with me today and everyone told me he dumped me for some girl in my math class named “Alexandra” i mean like seing him with another girl makes me so sad. Today i cried for hours and hours and hours cause of him with Alexandra, he told me he was sorry about the break-up but i don’t want to even look him in the eye right now. I dont know what to do anymore… he was my everything now he’s gone!
it’s a late reply. I hope you are doing well by now. However, here’s a quote I would love to share with you:
“The greatest revenge to a girl that steals your man is to let her have him, because a truly good man can never be stolen.”
lovely quote!
My Boyfriend and me break up like at least every other week. Over the most dumbest things. Like If I go somewhere without him, to a party or out with just a few people. Or If I bitch about something to much to often, or if i get fussy and mad about anything he does. But Usually I will blow up his phone, and he normally gives in. But the number one thing I have ever done, is ignored him. Everybody told me to, and i didnt think it would work. I thought he would be happy with it and run off his own way. One night, and one day, is all it took! He called me many times, and kept texting me asking me to please talk to him. And He eventually came around. The best thing for you to do in any situation with a Guy, whether your still dating him or not. Is to act like you don’t care. Guys like challenges, even if he’s already had you before, and for along time. The moment you let go, and do your own thing, most will be doing almost ANYTHING to get the attention all back on them. You just got to hold your ground for some time, and a couple hours is nothing! Give it a few days, and dont be mean and bitchy to them. That just pisses them off. But Don’t be so sweet and easily forgiving either, just act like they are a regualar person like anybody else you would be talking to!
Hi. My boyfriend broke up with me for the second time on Tuesday night, last time we were apart for 3.5 days before he came back. He sounds the exact same as your boyfriend I mean he gets mad and breaks up with me over the same things. Last time this happened i blew up his phone the whole time and he eventually gave in. This time, i did that at first, (all day Tuesday), wednesday i sent him a stupid email saying i miss him blah blah ill be here if he wants me back, and then early this morning i emailed him telling him that the email i sent before wasnt 100% accurate, that i’m feeling better and that i respect his decision…I haven’t talked to him since then and im not planning on it until he contacts me….he sent a friend over to give me my stuff back and he asked for his stuff back from my house. he is VERY dramatic. and VERY impulsive. so Im hoping this break up is just like last time and that he’ll come back..except this time im not begging him to come back, im going to act like i dont care….if he does end up coming back, then even still im not going to make it easy for him because him breaking up with me like this is getting ridiculous, if he doesnt come back…then maybe its for the better…
okay soo me and this guy we went out for 6 monthes. and well i cheated on him with his friend. and i regret it sooo bad and im still in love with him i cant stop thinking about him i tried everything to get him back i even waited almost a year without talking to himm. he hates me sooo much. what do i do? i want him back soo badlyy!!
actually my story is like this:me n he work in same office.at first we were friends.gradually we became close friends.i was already known about his girl friend.but his girlfriend got married to another person and then he proposed me one day.at that moment i didnot feel luv to him.but as days passed by i fell in luv with him n i accept his proposal.7 months passed happily ..but accidently i came to know that he is in contact with his ex girlfriend. he was avoiding me. i contacted him and discuss about that matter with him.he says that she was her first love and he is always in contact with her.he even did not confess that i am his present girlfriend to her.now still he is in contact with her.i cant live without him n i love him too much.please suggest me what should i do to get him back.
My boyfriend and i broke up on tuesday last week and i usually see him every day at school but we have thanksgiving week off until moNday..we broke up because he had no classes together and we hardly ever hung out with eachother but before, we used to hang out all the time after school until we both started to get really busy all the time. I still love him and i havent talked to him since last friday but we r still really good friends and ive been ignoring him all week. His bestfriend told me tht when he went to my ex’s house on the day we broke up tht while they were in the jakoozi, my ex said tht he feels lonely and tht he wished he never broke up with me. But the thing is..idk how to get it back to before when we were bestfriends and talked/hung out with eachother all the time. I really miss him and im pretty sure he misses me too but i just want to know how i could be able to stop the awkwardness between us and get back with him. I think he is giving me the silent treatment (im doing the same) because me and my ex’s/my bestfriend tried texting him “hi” at the same time one time and he only replied back to our bestfriend..what shud i do? I really want him back..
My first boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. I’m going crazy for him. I’m asking his friends to talk to him to get him back with me. But he told me he doesn’t care. But yet he still flirts with me. I think he likes this girl in my class that is a complete “hoe” and I hate it. I just wish I could have him back. I don’t know how to make his attection back on me. When I was with him, I controlled him big time. And I feel so bad about it. We were together for a little over 2 years. I love him to death. But he doesn’t like me anymore. He knows he can have me if he wants me, so I feel desperate and unvalueable. I don’t know how to show him that I don’t need him (but I do) but I don’t want him to think that I hate him.
hi everyone, listen to me , lifes to short , a door closes and another opens, i know its hard at the mo but trust me, just be strong , dont contact them it will only make you more desparate if you do. THERE getting on with there lifes you need to also, honestly they will respect you more if you show them you have moved on , dont become there doormat, i,ve been there myself and i know constantly texting an ex is a big no no, you end up tied to your phone waiting for a reply and if you dont get one you end up feeling worse in yourself, just step back take a deep breath and realise your a better person , live your life , dont live theres, if its meant to be they will get curious one day and wonder wat your up to, but hey when and if that day comes you may be happy with some one new or happy just being single . i,ve not contacted my ex in a month, everyday does get easier , but you have to stick to your guns, let them miss you, if they dont well then you know it wasnt the relationship for you,,, keep your chin up
Okay so my ex bf he asked me out on June and weve been on and off. when we were dating he asked for money he was going their though time I gave him 2,000 he spread a rumor about me in school tellin everyone I paid for my relationship. He had everyone against me for a while and some are still. last week he told me that he doesn’t want to go back out with me because he doesn’t want to use me and that he doesn’t want a relationship I tried to persuade him and he said..I don’t like you like thy that’s why I’m not gonna go back out with you. And he apologized for “taking advantage of me ” I’m so lost and confused I know he likes me he is just so afraid of a relationship he hates commitment. what should I do? I do call him and text him a lot bug I’ve been controlling myself.. Ahh did I mention I’ve liked this guy for 6 years and when I finally have him to myself I easily loose him.. It’s so hard I just wanna know what road to take!