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In this video, I reveal:
- What women need (to stay in the relationship)
- Why women will leave a relationship
- What you can do to regain her interest, even if she is seeing someone else.
- The steps you need to take to get her back after a break up.
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Hey u’r website is really helpfull. and I acted upon your advices and she herself contacted me and said she didnt want it to end this way and i said to forget past and just continue with our own lifes but i still want her to be as nice to me as she was before the break up , we often talk and we’re like good friends , i cant simply ignore her.
Could u please tell me how i can make her want me and like me again ?? I’ll be very thankful
If you want her to like you as before is not too hard. Try to limit your contact with her. Maybe text her once or twice a night just so she’ll know you are still there for her. Sometimes try not to talk to her and only slowly respond to her text/call. If she misses you she’ll realize that she still loves you and will treat you better. DONT GIVE IN TOO EASILY and dont act like a jerk to her. Be neutral.
My ex did not discuss our relationship and within 3 weeks she went on the website,singlemuslims.com and start searching for young single guys for marriage.
We were with each other for 3 years.
How low is that?
I met up with her twice to speak with her,but she was acting strange,cold,not interested.
Finally i met up with her and she said she would give it a go and would take off her profile on singlemuslims.com.
next day she emailed me,Hi Afzal,i know your hurt,i have moved on,i do not love you.
I went mad and called her,but she never picked up.
I wrote her a note,saying she was evil and basically she was a slut,whore,etc…(really bad stuff)I was angry!
She contacted the police and got me arrested and charged.I was locked up for 3 days and now will face court.
sorry about what happened, your situation is way beyond what advices can do to help. Moving on and helping for a miracle is the best way. Try hating her because that’s the best solution to get over someone.
You are soooooooooooooooooooooooooo incredibly sexy!
Please contact me . I have been seperated for 4 years , was married 26 at the point of breakup. still married seeking your help. I am willing to pay for your services if you think there is even a remote chance you can help. Sincerly Ken
My girl friend and I broke up and I did manage to get her back but I really need to consolidate things as I suspect shes not really contacting or talking to me like the way she used to do it before the break up
i had the same problem and we ended up breaking up again after a week. If you guys ever break up again and you can sense her wanting you back, try to give it about a week or so before you take her back because she’ll cherish you more. Girls get confused about their feelings a lot. I made the biggest mistake by getting back with her and she felt like she didn’t love me like before so we broke up again. I was the one at fault for the first break up.
Hay tnanks alot your mails as reall helped me a lot but for me, im still very hurt and i just wish i could talk to some one may be u should give me ur phone number so i can call u thanks once more taiwo.
sometimes hearing from her really helps, not knowing if it is going to work 100% but it helps a lot in the process of getting over someone. You’re trying out the system of not contacting them and even if it doesn’t really work out in the end, you’ll be fine by then. Just hope for a miracle to happen.
Thank You for your clips. Very informative. I’m going through abit of a bad patch with my Ex,..10 years of history,.and so much said and done. I’m needing to figure out if i want to try to get her back,.or leave everything as it is,.and move on. Thank you for being a breathe of fresh air, to all of us.
I broke up with my ex because she was caught looking for a men online. We have a lot history together. Unfortunately I still love her. She’s still living in my house and driving the car I bought her. I feel I want us to work out our differences. How do I get her back. We are not communicating even though we have a business together.
I want her back
I broke up with my ex 6 weeks ago. And it’s completely my fault. I work out of town alot and the weekend u came home for us to move in together. I simply flipped out I was under lots of pressure with my business and etc. So I accused her of cheating on me, looking around the house for clues and etc. Then the next day and few days I wouldn’t let it go so she said she wanted some space because of how I was acting. But i did the excat opposite kept calling, texting her all day. This went one for a week or two I aslo did some foolish things to get her attention or respond to me. So finally she told me not to call her anymore and she couldn’t see us getting past this and thee way I handled it. But before this we were unseperateable and so in love . I just can’t believe how I acted and how it went from so good to so bad so fast .. Please help I feel she lost respect for me as a man and a leader and has mo confidence in me. Also we I ask so we done for ever you never Wana hear from me she said no I didnt say I never wanted to hear from you just let me call you? What can I do ? please
My ex broke up with me a month ago and she said she didn’t love me anymore. i kept begging and she said ok, but the next day she would say im breaking up with you and this cycle kept going for a week. but then i just accepted it, but she just said i was to controlling and jealous. the next week we had spring break and she went to Spain. she said it helped her get over me and from there she ignored me, but then she just started talking to me a little, but she said that me buying a book on how to get back together was ridiculous. please help
My gf and I have not talked in 2 days now…1st she tells me I do not act on my feelings I would rather follow than lead and part of this is why she is backing a way..after I told her to take some time and think about what she wants..she sent me a text saying why is it so hard for you to ask me how I am doing..I’m getting mixed signals like crazy..I have fallen deaply in love with her my feelings for her are stronger than any other feelings towards a woman I have ever felt..I realize now I lacked the communication and showing her daily what she means to me..I am working on my flaws and hopefully she will see that she means the world to me..
Sounds like she wants you to be more of your own man. Gain some confidence and stop following what other people says to do, and do what you want to do. In order to do this though, you need to find out what you actually want and who you are.
I have waited 4 days without talking to her and today out of the blue she sent me a text I answered but kept it short but sweet..everything was fine and all of a sudden after 4-5 he’s of nothing she sends me a text saying I have done nothing to show her how I feel about her..so said sorry u feel that away and I hope u can eventually see it..then she says goodbye and I wish u the best..my ? is why is she done if shes the one who needed space and time to think..
hey, me and my gf lived together the same roof and room for 1 yr but now she has new bf, im still in love with her and she told me she still loves me.. i told her that, sometimes i want to get her back but i resist myself from begging her to come back to me coz i did that before..we split 4 mos ago and after break up she started seeing this guy… in the first place they are completely strangers.. she told me she wanted to get back with me but she can’t coz she has bf now and she can’t forget all my faults during our relationships.. what can i do to get her? everytime she texted her guy i felt pain in my chest and wishing she won’t come back home and the worst thing is, every night she slept with her bf coz her bf doesn’t want to sleep her in our apartmnt coz we are in the same bed….what can i do? before she went to her bf i ask her to come back with me.. i know she still loves me coz everytime we see each other she treats me like her gf.. we hugged when we sleep, she kissed me for goodnight and she hugged me and kissed me everytime she goes out…pls give me advice….
She wants you to follow her. & Girls dont like it when guys send short messages. Girls like when the guys show his feeling to her. So Chase her! And when she sais “wish you the best” say “your the best!” sweet talk her show her that you need her and you really want her.
Me and my girlfriend have been together for 14 months and lived together for 13 months. I recently moved and she had to move back home but was going to split time living with me and at home. We have been fighting for 7 months probably and she said she needed space and a break, but considers us broken up. She didn’t change her FB status she just hid it and I decided today to hide mine, so it is not officially done on FB. The reason we fought so much is because I was so insecure and unhappy with myself and questioned everything she did. What should I do? She still says she loves me and misses me. I am losing it over here and don’t know how I should approach this. I have found happiness and confidence and have been getting back in shape over the last 2 weeks and I actually think this has helped me. I am going to meet up with her and be the man she fell in love with and explain it all to her. Is this going to work and how should I approach it?
ok so how do you talk to her if donot call me she stoped e mails facebook, blocked phone calls were very happy day of breakup but she started to run down my daughter and i blew it walked out she said its over but i didnt know what hit me didnt want that handled all wrong persued badly promised everything gave my all but no answers to problem need advice when,how do i fix this jerry
hello again ashley wellwhen left off the other day when i walked out on her she says wheres my key its over i said if you want it that way so i departed not knowing she was serious she says i want a clean break i didnt realize at time i made a real big mistake then no contact except my trying to call her she then put a block on phone booth ill show her she answered phone and said didnt i get message dont call me again about 40letters and posat cards later i dont think she read any of them so ashley where do i stand now and how do we make this ok again really lovedthat girl thanks ashley jerry
So my ex girlfriend broke up with me a month ago, I been going out with her for 5 months and she was the one chasing me first in this relationship. She did everything for me and loved me so much, then i started becoming a wuss and letting her win arguments and all that crap,,when she broke up with me her reasoning was that her life was too hectic right now and she works everyday plus school, but i didnt buy some of it even though she is busy everyday she still made time for me through our relationship, after the break up i didnt contacted her or nothing, she tried playing facebook games and making seem like her life is good and happy but really she was hiding from her emotions and cant accept that, she contacted me 2 weeks and ask “what ive been up to” i kept it short and indifferent…i didnt give her that satisfaction that i still care so she didnt have the power on me…a 1 1/2 week pass and she met this guy at the club and got her rebound man, she’s been hanging out with this guy and he is less attractive, i was kinda insulted coz i was more stylish and way better looking then him, but anyways she posted picture of him and her already on facebook,,,,it hurted me so i deleted her facebook and everything…now just today she contacted me on skype chat, and said “So im assuming we’re not friends?” i just said “we’re not enemies” and she said “if you say so” k well i got to study, ttyl” ….i didnt say anything after and fall into her game…..then the next morning at 7am my friend saw her post this directly towards me….”Im sorry”? …..any advice?
my ex gf and I new eachother and left the ppl we were dating because it wasn’t working out with them. I wanted to take her stress away so I’d often push being too romantic something I never tried. while dating we had great moments and later she wouldn’t tell anyone we were dating she just kept saying we were friends. I was really confused because her friends wanted her to gout out with me and told me to ask her out but she still didn’t tell them only one knew. I would often bug her because it dints seem fair that we had to hide our relationshi. later on she broke up with me because she had feelings for her ex bf and needed time. I still want her back I deeply care about her and would give anything to be with her please help me!
HI thanks for the advice
me and my girlfriend broke up about to years a go, in between she has a new guy but broke up with him and then she called me to say sorry but she was cold in the way she said it we talked 2-3 times after that and in the last conversation we had she said she loved me but just as quick she said she didn’t know if she loved me or hated me and after that she wouldn’t answer my calls and then changed her number and know she completely ignores me. Whats up with that??
thanks in advance
Hi Ashley, thanks for the help,
Getting down to the crux of the matter, we broke up at the end of May, for the third time, and I didn’t contact her for a whole month. I was in a bad place before the break up, a real wuss with a lot of issues, but I’ve worked through most of them. I joined the gym, I run 5k now three times a week, have taken up a home study course and I feel that I’m actually in a better place now than when she fell for me originally. I had to get back in touch to pick up my things from her house and we had a chat about being friends and hanging out. We hung out a few times, went shopping, went for breakfast etc. and always had a great laugh. I teased her quite a bit and she always responded by play wrestling and poking, which I took for a good sign, and she always gave me hugs before we parted ways. Anyway, she called me fix her computer 2 weeks ago and then bought me breakfast and we hung out for a few hours. When we went back to her place I told her straight out that I couldn’t be friends with her and that I wanted all or nothing. She told me that she didn’t feel that way about me any more, or if she ever could again. I asked for a yes or no answer, which I don’t know if it was a good or bad idea, and she took a while to think about it and didn’t really want to answer but she ended up saying no. I walked out and told her to take care….. She still had my sunglasses, so last Friday I went down to her house to pick them up and she asked me if I wanted to go shopping with her and her 2 boys. We did, and again we had a great laugh. This morning we went for breakfast again and she asked me to help her with a few computer tasks next week again. I honestly don’t know what to do from here on in? I don’t want her thinking I’m playing games with her or get stuck in the friend zone. What I really want to know is this, is there any chance for a reconciliation?
Regards,
John…
I and my ex have been livng together for 3 yrs,all of a sudden,she meets a guy she hasnt been in contact with for so long,they ended up being friends,but then began to get too close!shed leave me to go be with him,when i complain she’d say they are just friends and i shouldn’t be botherd,when i leave the house,the guy comes over all the time and sometimes sleeps over! We started having quarells and fights over dis guy! It got so intense,she now told me she needed a break up,that she wasnt in love with me anymore! A week after the breakup,she starts going out with this same guy,sme1 she said she could never have anything to do with! I still love her and want her back so badly..what do i do? I used to call,beg,text n do all sorts of things to let her i know i still love her and care,but she says she doesnt love me anymore! Please advice me,what do i do? How can i make her love me again,I mean 3yrs was no joke…please advice me on what to do? Now i don’t call nor text cos i am tired of hearing the same thing over and over..wht do i do?
Hey Hii
I had relationship for 5 years.I was away working abroad my Gf was feeling bad that i was not giving her time.As i was busy in work and was mostly partying in the weekends she started getting pissed with me.Then later she started avoiding me and started behaving badly to me just because i did not have the kind of time for her.Now she has moved on with someone else if try to contact her she behaves very rudely with me.In turn i get so hurt i start abusing alcohol and dope.I dont want to spoil my life and i also dont want to loose her please help me out.
My girlfriend and i just recently broke up this past week after being together for a year and 9 months. We were constantly fighting and she said that she wouldnt be able to get back with me because her heart just wasnt in it anymore. The night that she broke up with me she already broke rules we established during the relationship and she hooked up with another guy that very night. I havent been able to get out of beed because my hearts been ripped to shreds and she felt nothing about the relationship that she went and did that. I alerady messed up and begged and pleaded to give me another chance because I didnt know what else to do after she got with that guy. However since then Ive been reading your website and havent contacted her at all. What do I do know how do i get her back if all possible since Ive already messed up?
Hi, bought your book, thanks. But have a very specific question not answered there. What about the situation of an on-off relationship where I failed to commit and give her security (I know why, basically I was fresh out of a divorce). She finally cracked after 2 years of ups and downs and is dating another guy but I am positive that she still loves me. Isn’t NC here a bad idea? I’m eally confused!
me and my girlfriend dated for two years. All three of the things you explained were the reasons we broke up. I cheated, i didn’t care at the time because i thought i was bulletproof and i never adored her. Now that she is gone i know how much she means to me, and honestly i want her back! we have been high school sweethearts and gone through so much and everytime made it through. She says she still loves me just not in love with me and that she can’t even see me like a boyfriend anymore. Along with saying im an annoying fly, she hates me for all the stuff i did to her and that ive had way to many chances. I know my situation is salvageable because she blocked me on twitter and deleted me as a friend on FB after i went three days no contact. The situation went from bad to worse when people were saying she was hooking up with guys which she wasnt and i simply asked her. Then the next day it seemed to be a lil better, then that night i called her and told her who told me all the news. She cussed me out etc. I’ve gone back onto no contact and going on a week, i know she will contact me first because she is a possessive person and despite everything i know i wouldnt still feel hope if there was none no matter what she says. i know what we had and i know there is still hope. Theses videos have helped me a lot, thank you! i just would like to know what to do when she initiates contact since it’s kind of close to the holidays and it’s confusing me. Thank you
I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years about 3 1/2 months ago. We had an argument and didn’t speak to each other for a few days. She sent me a text saying that she missed me after those few days, but I didn’t respond. She later texted me asking if I received it and I sad yes. We were in a relationship on facebook and I received a request to accept our relationship, which meant she took us out of it since I didn’t do it. I got more upset, deleted her as a friend, and changed my status to single. She sent me a text the next day saying “what a way to find out your relationship is over, on facebook”. I responded by saying “you’re the one who acted like an ass for nothing” and there was no contact for the next 4 weeks. After that we started talking again and she wanted to see me, so she came over. Things seemed to be good and we wound up having sex. I thought we would resume our relationship shortly thereafter, but it seems that as soon as she found out that’s what I wanted she didn’t. She told me that she did not want to be in a relationship with me and just wanted to be free to hang out with her girlfriends. I made the usual mistakes of calling/texting repeatedly and begging her to come back to me, with no success. A few days later she half heartedly said that we could give our relationship another try, but slowly. I would see her once or twice a week for a couple of hours (only when she wasn’t busy). I told her I didn’t feel like she was even trying in the relationship and she said “this is how it is right now and if that doesn’t work for you do what you have to do”) I told her it didn’t work for me and stopped all contact with her for 7 days now. After reading a ton of material and watching several videos I realize I made a huge mistake! She’s been posting comments on facebook to her guy friends about getting together and acting as if she’s glad we’re not together. I love her and am afraid that I may never get her back.
hii ashley this is raj …i need ur effective suggestion as i broke up with my gf about 1 and half months ago she has not called me or had text me yet..the reason for our break up was that i lied a lot to her making stories.. but believe me my intensions were never wrong on her.we have been sexual many times.But she told me after the break up that she has moved on..i cant concentrate on anything… i have stopped calling and texting her for the last 3 weeks…i really love her and want her back in my life and also want to marry her…i introduced her to my mom and dad.Im really dying to get her back…pls give me a proper and effective suggestion .It seems that she doesn”t loves me anymore and after getting to know all the lies she hates me like anything….
hi, i need advice and support please, my ex just dumped me today, as she spoke to my previous ex girlfriend who told her things about me, mainly the bad stuff. and it has really put her off me, my parents know about her current ex and they like her, i really love my girlfriend (ex) , she thinks i used her, and that i dont love her or care for her. but i really do, now she does not want to contact me or see me again and im tryin really hard to get her back, she has also posted the gifts i gave to her for valentines
what can i do, i love her more then anything, i really really want her back with me forever.
i m 15 years old currently studying in std 10 in mumbai, india. i had been in a relation with my girlfriend for 8 months and those 8 months for both of us were just more than heavenly. we were each others first love and we loved each other a lot. after 8 months she became a little over-confident about our relation and started double dating. so forcefully i had to break up with her. she dint feel much hurt after that break up but after 2 months she back to me saying that she loves me a lot and cant live without me and she also kissed me in front of her boyfriend. when my friends came to know that she earlier betrayed me and she wants to be in a relation with me now again they got angry and forbid me from dating her. i didnt much pay attention to them and we still dated. the result was such that forcefully we had to make new friends. we were successful in having a good company bt her new group of friends warned her that not to get involved into any kind of relationship crap. she was already hurt of loosing her old friends and didnt wanted to lose the new ones. so we had to broke up. i tried to tell her a hundred and one times that she is the one who should decide what kind of life she wants n not her friends. but she didnt listen to me n we broke up. such is the situation n i really want her to be back in a relationship with me. i am also scared that she may fall in for some other guy with whome she is best friend currently. i beg you please help me out through this. i really love her and i think she too does but cant date me because she thinks that there are too many complications created. i need your help in this. please help me out through this.
hey its been a month now, she says shes over me and she has no feelings but wants to stay great freinds…im 18 shes 16 and we were together a whole year, i was insecure and she was in loads od stress and we went on break, she even said were not breaking up but then she did…what should i do,,i know she loves me and cares but i need guidance
my gf and I were dating for 3 months and now she broke up with me a month ago.She said that she has feelings for her ex-bf and I am still in love with her.We have to see each other everyday and have the same set of friends.She still hangs around with me and sometime the old spark comes back.She says that she would leave me after few months and go to her ex back.She still cares for me but is bit stubborn,she finds me whenever she needs.She loves me but she still has feelings for her ex,he cheated on her and had been dominating for a very long time.He makes her feel guilty by doing all the wrong things and over here i had changed my life according to her.Kindly help me..
Adding on to it.She is trying to work out things between her and her ex but when i make her feel jealous or do something she does not like,she starts becoming possessive .When her ex does something wrong she gets annoyed and then she starts feeling for him again when he says sorry.What should I do and how am I supposed to get her back to fall in love with me again…
Hi Ashley , This is nakul here. i need ur effective suggestion as i broke up with my gf about 3 Months ago. Now she was not calling me nore text me. We had gud time together. we leav like husband and wife. We do have sex many time.Reasion for breakup as i assumed that i dont have fait on her. here i am telling one incident- One night she told me that she is feeling sleepy, i request her for 5 minute but she dont that that much time as well. I just recall my mind and asking my self what happen to her, whey she is behavging like this. usaly we talk late night till 2 to 3 PM and we both weakup and do our daily work like i went to my office and she went to her college. But that night i was thinking and sleept, suddenly i weakup and see my head phone is their in my head. I feel bad that today also i slept without saying gudnight to her. I sow the time its around 1:20AM night. I thought i will call her and say sorry. when i called up what i see, she was busy with another call. i caleed up for 3 times but she could not answar my call. after 5 minute she calledup, i asked whith who ur talking at this time, she said that guy name whom i wont like. i disconnect the line and kept my phone away. She call me 3 times but all the time i disconnect. Than again i called up by1:45AM , i found again she was busy. I got shok and when she picked my call, my 1st question is that with who u wont to spend ur life, me or with that guy? Her answar was very much socking for me- She reply i am confuse between u and him, how much i love you, that much i like him. I am unable to decied whom shoul i left and whom not? After this our relation is going weaker and weaker day by day and that guy has come closer and closer. Now she was not listening anything. What that guy is telling her, she was doing the same. but when ever i asked for any help she had reply through text. Please help me to get her back in my life. I do love her very much and i would like to merry her.
i dont know anything now… we have 5 with this are 6 days without see her… i deleted her from msn, but she have my phone number, havent called me yet.. i dont want to lose hope but i dont want to get illusions im confused, is long distance relationship, now she is not with somebody close, but there is somebody from other country i know she likes, im not calling her anymore no sms, no nothing, plz tell something im feeling weak this day… tell me what to do…
Tnx
My ex broke up with me almost 3 months ago. The last time that we talked she was mad, but now she’s not mad at anymore. What could this possibly mean? I want to get her back but she seems doing happy now.
A lady I ran into last summer..is an actually an old “friend” from 9 years ago but we had not spoken or seen each other until then.’ I got her number that evening..she called me a few days later and we hung out and messed around for about a month. Went to parties naked, went to get coffee…messed around at each others house. She cut the benefits after a month but said she still wanted to be “friends” and have contact and be sincere about it. We did this for about a 3 weeks (w/ no action) and I made the mistake of giving hef flowers/gifts twice. She of course rejected this behavior and wanted distance. I saw her again september 11, at a hookah bar which she invited me to to celebrate with her and her girlfriends, I could tell I was turning her on..(acting busy, mentioning vaugly another woman, looking good being upbeat, winning the approval of her friends, etc…) Talked to her a couple of times on the phone afterward in the following weeks and she seemed less interested. She hung up on me October 1, one she claimed I was acting “negative” I called her a couple of tmes later in Oct with no response. I recently broke the low contact scenerio by wishing her a happy new year, telling her I had a lot of fun with her in 2011, and I hope this year is even better for her. Still no response. If I see her in public (which I may eventually) what would the best course of action be and what do you think all of this means?
ehm… hey Ahsley.. when i sent her the letter as an e-mail… she replied that we can go on Skype cz she didn’t have prepaid
anw… so the trick to make her call me worked but am still not sure if what am doing now is the right way … i haven’t talk to her since the last call.. since 4 daays… so now i need help how to do next steps plz 