Ever felt so miserable because you’re longing for your ex but they’re completely shutting you out?
I remember a few years ago, I went through my own unexpected break up which tore me up for months. This was someone who I thought I was going to be spending the rest of my life with. The shock of it all left me extremely lonely and pained.
Friends would try to help but in the end, you can only annoy them so much with your own grief.
It took me a few months to get over it, and you know, it would have been nice to have some type of a support system. Someone out there that knew exactly what I was going through and helped me through it one day at a time.
I was aware of this need for support after releasing The Ex Recovery System. I find that sometimes with the pain of the break up, it can be difficult to get through each day.
Worse is to know exactly what you’re meant to do on a daily basis when you’re not feeling yourself to begin with.
This is why I realized I HAD to do something about this.
Hence I created the From Break up to Break Through Program, a 12 week intensive daily coaching program accompanying you through your break up, through the strategies within The Ex Recovery System and follows you along to help you recreate that intense passion and love lost with your partner.
The coaching contains a series of in-depth articles, videos and reports, as well as a support forum where you can interact with other members. New information is released nearly every day for 12 weeks.
Here’s just a preview of things you’ll discover:
- Secret Tip About No Contact
- Getting Through It While Being Long Distance
- Men, How to Steal Your Woman Away From Her New Man
- Post-Breakup Analysis (What Went Wrong)
- Is Your Partner Not Responding?
- When to Make Another Contact
- How to Use Emotional Programming
- Should You Stay or Should You Go? 50 Important Questions to Ask
- Yourself Before Getting Back Together
- and much much more (in fact, over 80 days of advice and support!)
Like I said, I wanted to cover it all: From Breaking up – to Rebuilding Attraction and Getting Your Ex Back – to Maintaining a Happy and Passionate Relationship
Not only that but I talk about the fundamentals of what makes a good relationship and how to find someone who is RIGHT for you who can help you achieve this sort of love and happiness in life.
This is certainly no easy feat but I believe is extremely important to making sure you’re always in love and happy with your partner.
I want to share that a GREAT relationship is possible all the time with the RIGHT person.
Does this sound like something you’re interested in? Because I designed it specifically with YOU in mind!
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Dear Ashley,
How are you? Thank you so much for creating this system. but i think I need more help. Can you help me? here is my sitiuation;
Me and my boyfriend (can’t call him my ex just yet
) broke up a little over 2 weeks ago. It was sudden break-up, i mean we had our arguements lie all couples do but everything was going well. we were doing good. Then one day he came over and said he just didn’t feel right to him. He was crying, heck so was i, I didn’t want him to leave, and he seemed to be on the fence about leaving. when i kissed him, he kissed back. Just as he left my house, he turned to me and said that he still love me, while still crying.
when he got home, he called and said that he cried like a baby to his sister. and when i called him in the morning he said he didn’t sleep well.
Then i made a mistake.
I called him desperately and frequently that day, easily 100 times. he didn’t pick up.
I called him frequently for the next morning still he didn’t pick up.
finally on tuesday he called and wanted closure.
Can their be closure if two people still care deeply about eachother?
I called him a few more times throughout that week maybe 3-4 times and have since then stopped.
What do I do? I miss him so much.
First thing you need to do is get yourself in check emotionally.
Stop dwelling on the past think of the future with him and know how wonderful it can be, have hope.
Stop being so desperate and needy too, he has needs too.
I want you to ask yourself was there anything that you do in the relationship that made him change his mind about you?
When a man says I love you dosen’t mean he is in love with you.
It sounds to me like he was conflicted, on the break up and really wanted to love you but he needed his space, men do need space and also value their privacy. If you don’t know the reason for the breakup then you need to find out, also if you are always acting with the intent of getting your needs met first, you need to stop after all “it takes two to Tango”. Another thing you may find helpful in your quest to get your love back is to pick up a copy of, The 5 love langusges by Gary Chapman. Gary basicially lays out in his book that there are 5 languages of love
1. Words of affirmation or telling of love
2. Touch Affection, physical show of love
3. Act of service- doing things for someone you love
4. spending time together
5. gift giving to show your love
Think about which of these things makes you feel loved and find out which of these things makes your biyfriend feel loved if you provide him with that which he needs he won’t leave. also don’t forget to tell him when you feel most loved by receiving one of the five things described. You can simply say after the two of you have gotten back together, that you feel most loved when he makes physical contact with you kissing hugging etc.
And if you don’t have Ashley’s sytem yet you need to get it soon, or risk losing him forever it’s really affordable and she lays out everything you need to do to win your boyfriends heart back, she has worked her tail off on this and it’s worth 10 times more than what she charges for it, so stop sitting around sulking and feeling sorry for yourself and take action, before it’s too late Get the EX Back Recovery system today. Good luck and best wishes in winning you boyfriend back without it.
Hey ashley. Im in need of help. My ex boyfriend and I have been together for 4years and 6months. Its been a month since we have been broken up,his father passed away a couple of months ago, and we would constantly argue for the dumbest things. He asked me for space that things were crazy right now that he loves me that im the best thing that ever happened to him to please not be mad at him. We had talked about getting married and living together, he also gave me a promise ring. During the month we have been broken up ive only made contact once, he has called me passed by to see me, when we saw eachother again for the first time I could tell he was happy to see me and i had butterlies in my stomach. He has been the one to contact me but still keeps telling me he doesnt know what to do, there was a point where he said he wants to work things out with me, but that he wants to take things slow, he doesnt want me to pressure him into doing something, that he wants things to fall into place. Then after that he will say that he doesnt know when hes going to get back with me. I sae him again the other day his eyes looked watery, hes told me that I am his better half, and that hes inlove with me and that he has never felt this way for another girl before. He told me the other day that he doesnt want to see my car he doesnt want to pass by my house, and that by mistake he passed by my dads house and he had a bad day. Im so confused im inlove with him. I have realized that that I did argue for dumb things and that I would treat him bad and im completely aware of the things ive done wrong. Everyone keeps telling me to do me, that he is going to come back, just to give him space. I am just scared of the outcome im scared he never come back or if he is trying to fall out of love with me. We have been eachothers longest relationship. This is the second time we have broken up. Help what should I do?
Dear Ashley,
My ex-boyfriend and I had been together for six months when we broke up. Although we were only together for a while, I’ve known him my entire life and really thought we were a good match. The breakup was out-of-the blue for me, but the reason he gave was that I just didn’t seem as happy as before we got into a relationship (this was accurate, but had to do with the fact that we just started college and I was really stressed about all the changes).
I really feel as though we made a mistake breaking up, and I want a chance to get back together with him. However, I can’t follow your advice about not having any contact with him, because we have many classes together and most of our friends are mutual. How can I be successful in trying to win him back?
Thanks,
Rachel
Hi Ashley,
I really need help on this one.
My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago today and I’m finding it so hard…
I haven’t spoken to him or seen him and I miss him like crazy.
The other night though, I posted this song from (final fantasy viii) a video game he showed me when we were together…
the song’s title is actually my name so I decided to post it to facebook cause i was thinking of him.
That same night I logged on and noticed he posted a song from the same video game (final fantasy x) as well.
His song, however was an orchestra with strings, piano and the whole sha-bang, very climatic.
Where mine was just a guy playing the song on a piano.
As well, he really made it clear when he broke up with me it was over.
I have a few things that are still at his place and he told me to not come around and get them because he would bring them over.
He hasn’t brought them over and it’s been making me think and hope that he doesn’t want to let go.
Do you have any idea what the song post was or why he hasn’t brought my things back?
I’m fighting the urge to call and contact him but I don’t know how much longer I can go.
I miss him with everything and I am still so in love with him.
I want him and I to be together again. Please help.
I’m trying to not hold on to false hope if it is.
I’ve just been thinking since he was really firm on his decision… but he hasn’t given me my things…
Could this mean anything?