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This video will reveal:
- Why you will want to contact your ex and when or if it’s a good idea to contact them.
- When to contact after a break up (not sure how long to wait, its covered in the video)
- How to contact your ex for best chance to reconcile with them!
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Hello Ashley,
hello Ashley, i have been doing most of your ex recovery system but im afraid that im too late. i hope you can get this e mail because i need your advice if i should keep trying to get her back. i want her back more than anything, but there are many times that i feel like its not really working.
will this system still work for me even if i already removed her from my friends list and changed my status to single? she said i was the love of her life and her best friend was with her for almost 5 years then she broke up with me, said she feel the same way about me anymore. please help.
Dear Ashley Kay, Tahnk you in advance for your time. I downloaded why do couples break up and the Facebook effect. I had a realtionship woht a guy for 3 years online. He was going through a nasty expensive divorce and could not come and see me, zHe called me all the time told me I was the love of his life the soon to be mMrs Edward Eades. At christmas he was going to come for new yerwas he sent me a beautiful gify and card and then i went on his facebook page and saw a girl wrote sweetheart to him I contacted her and loe and behold he was telling her the same things he was telling me she also did not live in his state. We did nit speak since christmas until today as he as some books of mine Dr Dwyers Books which are excellent, I think must ne wrong wioth me I am still i9n love with him. He got rid of the other girl just stopped calling her she told me and was very hurt, Is he a mental case, We were so close for so long and I had not dated for 9 years. Our conversation today was nice and pilicye but we never spoke of our relationship,. I am going to read your inof beofre i proceed to write him he asked me to write him with my address. I thiought he was my soulmate he knew every thing right to say. His wife took him for a half a millinon dollats and treated him like dirt. i THINK PART OF HIM MAT HATE WOMEN OR HE NEEDS HIS EGO BUILT UP SO HE GETS WOMEN TO FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM AND THEN DUMOS HIM. is there anyway I can find out if he is any good and he if he is the one for me, I have 3 men who want to marry me now but I can nvever stop thinking of ed, Am I crazy. What should i do do you think. I cannot forget all the times he made me so happy. But he crushed my soul at christmas and told me he wanted the other woman. I must be a fool to still want this man, but part of me wants him back.I juast dont know what to do can you DVISE PLEASE, TAHNK YOU,MICHELE RIVERS
my ex broke up with me, its been a month and a bit, and he’s now back and in love with his ex from before me, who he was in love with before and caused us alot of drama at the begining of our relationship. what do i do??
Here is my problem. I met a man in a bar over a year ago and he kept trying to get me to go out. Well in July I invited him to my house and we watched tv. Then we went out again in two weeks and 2 weeks after that once again. Then in sept we had sex and the next week we went out and had sex again. Now because of a girl at the bar who he told me was only a friend told him I text her which I didnt do cause I only know who she is by sight. Now he wont talk to me but the week before he told me he didnt believe I texted her. So did he only want sex or is he confused about us. I really like this guy. I heard he left town which he did tell me he was doing. I text him but got no reponse back. What do I do Help
Ashley, I have a really weird situation. My recent ex broke up with me for something that I DIDNT do. He said I flat out lied to his face about something that wasn’t even true. I said a lot of nasty things to him afterwards about how he was blind to the fact that I love him more than anything and how he was very selfish and self centered. I know that was a wrong move but I was hurting really badly. Now he includes me in on things but he is REALLY REALLY mean to me in front of everyone. He acts like he doesnt care but he still keeps contact. He uses psychology on me and twists things around to where its always MY fault. I honestly don’t know WHAT is going on. Can you please help me figure this out?
My ex broke up with me, its been a month and a bit! He sad, that he is inlove whit his ex[girl before me] 1 I just don’t know what to do! I realy love him & want him back, no not want i need him back! :[ please o,please help! ;[[
i can totally understand where you’re coming from – i am in the EXACT same situation right now. you need to just be patient. he’ll eventually miss what you guys had and will come around. my ex did the same thing to me and he had been with his previous ex for about a month after we broke up, and now im hearing they’ve broken it off, so maybe thats him realising dumping me was the wrong thing? idk, you really just gotta be patient, and in the meantime, focus on yourself, your friends, family and work. its amazing how much more you’ll appreciate these things. i recommend you just pray, pray for strength for yourself to get through, and wisdom for your ex to realise who the right person is for him, and for him to act on that. if you are the right person for him, God will put him back on your path, and if not then God has someone way better out there waiting to find you. for now just pray that God will give you strength, and your ex wisdom. its honestly the most effective thing you can do. i pray that both of our exes come back to us soon ♥
Thanks,Rachel!
your reaply really hellped me! im smiling and hoppin they will come back to uss!
and yeah,im praying ,praying & praying! it’s helping!
but,yeah!
ijust love him so much
so Rachel how is it going ?
are you back whit your ex .. or not?
Is it way to late?
My x and I dated 3yrs, we lived together and planned a child together, when I was 4mths pregnant he kicked me out of our house and started dating another woman,(people told me they were dating for a few months before he kicked me out) he has now moved her into his home, we r currently in court over custody of our now 7mth old daughter, its been over a year and I still cant stop thinking and dreaming about him, when he comes to see our daughter he acts as though nothing has changed between us, like we are still friends, when i asked him what went wrong he says he broke up with me because we got into a fight and i yelled at him, i don’t know how to deal with this. Do i let go and give up hope, he has been with this new girl for over a year. Something in me won’t move on and I’m not sure why.
Hey Ashley so me and my bf broke up about two months ago and since the break up, ive been hanging out with him and hes actuall been making the effort to hang out with me as well. Throughout the two months we hung out and when were together it seemed alot like old times even though we were trying to restrain and just be friends and he even told me he missed me and he still loves but then as time went on i cud tell he started to get a bit annoyed cuz i think he felt like i was pressuring him back in the relationship because i did send my friends to talk to him and i admitted that to him and he got very angry and snapped. He then wrote me an email detailing everything that he was bottling up and beggin me to leave him alone. I asked him if we could talk but he said that he rather wouldn’t talk. I feel very hurt right now and upset and i feel lost. Is there any hope that we will be together again, is it too late to give him that space and start the system. What do i do
Im in the same situation.. He n i have been together for 2yrs..planned to get married n hav kids.. He was perfect n always happy when we were together but n the last3 weeks of the relationship we had a couple arguments bc i felt unapreciated.. N he said i complained a lot.. He broke up with me on my bday.. He apologized about tht part..he told me theres no way we’d ever b together. We tried to b friends but had sex, kissed n acted like we were together.. It started to make em feel guilty bc we weren’t together so he broke it off.. He started treating me bad so id leave em alone for a while.. He recently apologived for the way he acted.. Its been 2 months n now we’re trying the friend thing again.. His tone sounds distant now n he’d avoid relationship questions… Am i too late? I just wish i knew what to do.. Hes the love of my life n i dnt want to wait until hes with someone else to get him to realize tht we’re meant for eachother…
Ashley,
Me and my ex boyfriend broke up late November. The reason for the break up was because I lied about something i did when we werent together. But when he asked me he threatened the relationship and so I decided to lie to prevent that from happening. He found out and we broke up. He wanted to be friends but I couldn’t. We did keep in contact for a while but it was too much and I couldn’t do it. But then out of nowhere he just decided he didn’t want to be friends and wanted to just stop all communication. I kept calling him non stop and texting him. After sometime he started texting less and less. It’s gotten to the point where he doesn’t write back at all. It was our 1 year anniversary and I decided to contact him after a week of no contact but he never wrote back. And if he does after 100 messages he just tell me “leave me alone” or leave me alone, leave with your dignity, we are over.” also before he left on vacation last week I sent him a message asking him if we were going to work things out before our 1 year he said “no”. Then I asked him if we are ever going to try again, and again, he said “no.” I don’t know what else to do. One time I texted him multiple times telling him I’m going over and I did pass by but he wasn’t home so I turned in the next block and surprisingly he was jogging and he thought I was staulking him. (which I wasn’t.) he told me to move on and leave him alone. Ashley I want to fix this. I feel like there’s nothing else I can possibly do. He hasn’t contacted me or anything. I’ve tried the no contact, but nothing works. Also, on his Facebook, he still hasn’t untangled himself from photos of us, or does he take me off from a game “words with friends” if he doesn’t, doesn’t that mean he doesn’t hate me as much? … Can you please tell me what I need to do. I find myself trapped and I dont know what else to do…
hi there. so me and my and my boyfriend broke up a couple days ago it was a muterial decision. things have been rocky for awhile and the spark had gone and he said that it was becoming to much work and he didn’t enjoy going out of his way doing stuff for me anymore and he wasn’t happy. i felt the same as well. we both love each other still and didn’t want to break up but felt we had no other option. we decided that after having some space we would try again. we have also been on a break a few months ago because we were having the same problems as now. when we go back together 3 weeks later. it was good for a week then it started falling apart again. i know we both have issues we have to work on. especially me. he always noticed i was never happy while we were together. which was true im a bit of a negative person and find it hard being happy with myself sometimes so i guess that killed things a bit. now we are broken up im scared things wont work out again or he will find someone else during this time apart. i txted him today and things were good but i said i missed him and he didn’t reply. i just dont know what to do. should i just leave it for awhile? please help. Im confused what if he was just trying to nicely get rid of me and this is it.
Hii! I’ve been viewing most of your videos and they’re just great! You’re awesome! But, so here’s the problem i don’t know if they will help me benefit in my relationship. This is the situation, i’ve been dating a guy for the past 3 years. he loved me and always showed it, i loved him but barely showed it, so i right away took advantage, thinking that he’s going to be there for me always. we were the on and off relationship. We weren’t that healthy. Everytime we broke up he would come back to me. I asked him do you love me? he ws like i wouldnt come back if i didn’t love you.But, then disaster strikes. He was in Egypt when we were chatting overseas online and i told him i was busy and couldnt talk, he became agitated and told me that if you cant be able to talk to me while in Egypt what makes you want to talk to me and have time to hang out when i’m in N.Y? So, after that i was lie i will, and he told me that, I’m sorry but i dont want to continue and all of a sudden, he provoked negative statements to me that hurt me very deeply. It’s been two weeks since we’ve broken up and the last of the break up i was being desperate for him and needy. I found out how much i needed him in my life. However, after these two weeks passed, weeks passed more and i did “No cantact” as you suggested. I, then saw him pass by my house and two days later he catches me walking by a store he hangs out at, and my friend looks back and tells me that he’s staring. He, then asks my friends brother, which he’s best friends’ with and asks where we were. Does that show he cares? Does that show that there is still a chance, even though he told me its too late, “i dont want you” even if it were on my dead body. And, on top of that i hurt him too much within the 3 years and actually made him cry a few times. what can i do to get him back!?? Thank You so muchh Ashleyy! & Godd Bless. Lol i feel desperate, so let me know what you can recommend i’d do, since i’m in a complex status.