If you’re in a long distance relationship and you’re going through a terrible break up, you’ll know that unlike conventional relationships, yours feel so much worse! So if you’re asking “Can I get my girlfriend back?” especially if you’re in a long distance relationship, I’m here to give you some pointers that may help you.
Believe it or not, distance is hardly ever the real reason long distance relationships fail to work out, so although you may believe you’re at a disadvantage… the only disadvantage is that you may get over your girlfriend sooner rather than later.
In a typical relationship break up, it’s most adviced to practice a bit of no contact directly after a break up. This is the same for long distance couples.
Don’t stare at your phone wondering when she’s going to call. Don’t call her whenever you get the urge, and definitely don’t stay on the phone to beg and plead for forgiveness.
Emailing, text messaging and pmming over MSN/AIM or Facebook goes along the same lines as calling. Any type of communicate right now is really redundant and not going to help while you’re both raw over the break up.
Resist those urges, instead write your thoughts or emotions onto paper. Write down everything you feel is wrong and all the emotions that is screaming to come out. Once you’re done, set it aside.
Another thing you can do is write a handwritten letter to your girlfriend. Make it as long as you want. Poor your soul out to her and dump everything you want to say into it.
Just DON’T SEND IT.
I don’t suggest writing an email, in case you do accidently hit send!
Now given that enough time has passed, you’ll want to open the lines of communication SLOWLY. A short email, a casual hello on AIM/Skype/MSN. A greeting over Facebook. Something small and harmless.
If you get nothing in return, shrug it off and try again later (not too soon though! Wait at least another week!)
If you primarily chatted over Email during your relationship, now’s the time to send a mid-length email to her letting her know what you’ve been up to and how you are. Don’t ramble on too long and don’t mention the break up!
Same goes, if you mostly chatted over the phone. Call her up and start a casual conversation. You’ll know how she feels when you talk to her.
Getting your girlfriend to feel attraction towards you again can be done the same way as in conventional relationships, you just need to build it up slowly!
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I agreed that writing down your thoughts is an effective ways to clear your mind of confusion and being clear at where you stand in this situation. I strongly suggest that you do that.