Get Your Ex Back

Have you heard this line before? What does it mean? If your ex gave you this line, be warned because you might not want to read this!

Here’s a translation of what the line “It’s not you, it’s me” really mean…

“It IS you and I now realized I can’t change you, so I’m moving on.”

Harsh but true. Someone giving you an excuse for the break up won’t want to place all the blame on you. They will hold some of the blame to make you feel somewhat “better” about the break up.

It doesn’t always work but you got to give it to them for trying.

So what does it mean when there’s something wrong with YOU to make them leave?

Well sometimes, it’s not something wrong with you but something wrong with the relationship.

When two people in a relationship fail to make things work, one will want to place blame on the other instead.

“He’s not supportive enough.”

“She nags all the time.”

“He won’t give me any space.”

“If only she was [x], then we’d have the perfect relationship.”

Another common case of people who use the line “It’s not you, it’s me” is that they won’t usually give any warning signs that something is wrong. They’ll keep it inside and “try” to change you on their own accord without coming right out and discussing things with you.

This clearly makes things really difficult because when they do leave, you’re left completely shattered and utterly confused! You’ll have questions like, “What did I do wrong? Why did they really leave?”

It’s brutal for the dumpee as it’s unlikely the dumper will explain the real reasons.

The only thing you can do is understand why this happens and ask yourself whether the relationship is worth salvaging.

Here’s some Do and Donts When Your Ex Gives You An Unsatisfying Reason For The Break Up:

Do

• Accept their reason, even if you don’t understand it.
• Wish them well for the future.
• Leave them alone post break up.

Don’t

• Ask over and over why they want to break up.
• Ask why they won’t give you another chance.
• Say that you’ll change.
• Apologize over and over.
• Start sentences with “Yea but…”

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