No Contact or NC for short is usually a lot easier said than done, especially when you share mutual friends and nights out means a high chance of seeing your ex as well. Like wise, this situation is similar to being stuck in a work environment with an ex. Both means you’ll find it harder to stick with NC if your ex is always there.
So what can you do? Sacrifice going out just to avoid your ex? Although you don’t need to spell out your NC plan to your ex, letting your mutual friends know firsthand is helpful.
Although this will help somewhat, the only real way you can avoid seeing your ex in the long-run is to turn down social outings with these mutual friends. What if those are mostly the people you go out with?
What I suggest is getting a fresh set of friends if this happens to be your dilemma. It’s a great excuse to meet new people and possibly attract someone new into your life also.
Take the plunge and if doing it alone is too intimidating, get a buddy to do it with you.
If you happen to bump into your ex by accident, act cool and indifferent, but “friendly”. Don’t linger too long to chat and keep things short. That should help make things easier and not damage your NC plans.
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November 28th, 2008 at 3:10 pm
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December 14th, 2008 at 12:08 pm
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January 4th, 2009 at 8:48 pm
This is probably the first time I’ve heard this advice…and it sounds like it will really work.
Thanks for sharing!!!