When was the last time you met someone new?
When you go out today I want you to go out with the idea of meeting someone new in mind. For example, when you cross someone in the street make sure to say hello. At work, approach someone you have never spoken to before.
At the supermarket, strike up a conversation with the checkout operator and be genuinely interested in what they have to say.
If you’re shy, remember you don’t have make this person your new best friend, just a simple hi will suffice. The more awkward you feel about doing this, the more rewarding it will be when you do it. This will build up your confidence and confidence is important in attracting old love or new love into your life.
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my dear,
sorry to bother you,and sorry for my terrible grammar ,
,but my situation is a little complicate ( how many time did you heard this uh?),I mean,I just, let see broke-up ,well it’s more like 2 to 4 week stand-by ,with my girlfriend,which still married,because her husband don’t give up (her husband left 2 months ago).Me and my girlfriend started to have an affair 2 years ago,I was with someone, same for her. We fallowed in love immediately,but then after 3 months( we worked together) she felt guilty about it,plus my ex girlfriend and her husband find out the affair too.
Well,long story make short. I broke up with my girlfriend ,she didn’t left him,but I moved back to Italy because it was to painful to don’t stay with her.
Now we stay in touch by phone while I was in Italy,until we agree to make me come back and try to date again because we couldn’t stay separate to long. So I did it. Back in the States,find a job (same town) find an apartment,and start to see each other,Obviously her husband didn’t know. Our plane was to be together in 3/4 months,but again she couldn’t handle the situation because,money,house ,divorce,stress,he was spy on her like crazy,so to much for her,oh I forgot to mention I’m 45,she’s 29,and 3 kids. So guess what,she give up on us,and I moved again,this time Las Vegas for six months,and again we start to keep in touch,until she decided to tell him the true,about us. She start to sleep in a couch for two months and stuff like that. So at the end he left. When he left we agree to don’t make me move immediately in,just to give her kids( 15-13-12 ) the time to realized all the new situation,and everything was fine until he start to call her everyday( less then 2 months) asking are you ready to take me back???She always said to him that she was seeing me,but he didn’t care at the point that he came back anyway against her wishes. He convinced her to agree to give him another chance because they had spend 8 years together ,and he feel he deserved it. I’m telling you that she doesn’t want him back at all,but she think to didn’t had chance( I doubt about it of course ).
I told her to stand for me more instead to be so submissive,or to call the cops if she didn’t want him in her house,( well his house too),but she wouldn’t see him arrested in front the kids.
So,now,he’s back,( she’s back in the couch),she told him that she don’t love him anymore,but he pretend another chance because after 8 years of marriage they have to many things in common. And I sow this happens every time to her. Note; when he’s not around she’s so much stronger,and we don’t had EVER any kind of problem at all,everything run so smooth. But he knows her weakness and she feel guilty about it. And when I talk to her and I explaining the situation,she agree ,but,then when she talk to him she’s just another person,and rather then fight to him,she give up,but I always pay the prize,even if she always come back to me in some way. Now I tell you man she doesn’t love this guy,he bother her to marry her for ever until she agree,even if she knew was wrong,but you know as usual it was for the kids. We have so much in common,talking ,interest,touching,feeling,sex,I mean everything. But AGAIN she choose him over me. She said that because she kind agree( no choices) to let him back,she want give him only a couples of week ( I believe more then that ) and then tell him that he doesn’t work and she wants keep to see me because she loves me. But you know what’s happening?He’s buy a truck for work,find a new job,so more guiltiness for her when the time comes to tell him to leave.
Now I’m very confused , honestly ,what I should do???
I don’t need to tell you that I love this girl ,like crazy( can you put together all the miles that I madded for her?),and I’m afraid to lose her for ever this time,even if I know and she know that too, what she’s doing is a big mistake,but I can’t take this anymore,just the idea to have another christmas by myself make me sick already.
Please,from the bottom of my heart help me
thank you
with all my respect
Maurizio Giordanengo
PS; sorry again for my orrible grammar,and if you have time to email me back my email is
pasqualino1963@yahoo.com or
papalindomau@yahoo.com
again thank you for your time
I definitely think it is important to meet new people. I am personally quite a shy person, but it is very rewarding to meet new people, and it really isn’t as difficult as I originally thought. You kind of get used to it after a while, and you become not so shy. Good advice.
Mary Glisan
Well, there are a few things to consider:
1. you are dealing with someone young enough to be your child.
2. If after two years the desire and passion on her part are not strong enough to be with you, it never will.
3. Seems that a large part of the relationship is based on the thrill of deciept.
4. Seriously, you are a grown man. Do you think her husband is hanging around to sleep on the couch?
5. She cheated on him, it’s in her nature to do the same to you.
6. I wonder how much pain this has caused her husband and their children, do you think about that?
7. It does seem you have things in common, selfishness, betrayal, deciept. Sex is always more exciting when it’s forbidden, if and when you get together it will mellow into the mondane and you’ll both seek to destroy another couple of families.
8. I hope for her husbands sake, you win, but I pitty the children who will see what their mother did to their father for someone that could now be their grandpa.
I f you really want help, you might seek it in religion. Jesus our lord can help you, let him in your heart.