About
GetExBack.net was created in June or July of 2008 by me Ashley Kay. I created this blog to help those seeking advice on a subject not that openly talked about. Especially amongst friends and families anyway. Most people would just say to “get over it” or that “she or he doesn’t deserve you”. But relationships are much more complicated and full of dynamics. Although I have to admit, some relationships definitely need to end for everyone’s sakes, on the other hand, we all know of couples who have broken up and gotten back together.
The purpose of the blog is not to “lead people on” or to cling onto some hope that you will get your ex back even when the relationship is doomed or not worth saving. The advice I give is based on my opinion that “everyone deserves a second chance”, and people should try to make a relationship work even if it didn’t the first time around.
The way we learn valuable life lessons is to make mistakes; whether that means you should try again with your ex partner or to move on to is something only you can answer yourself. I’m here to help you decide which way you want to go through educating you on what works and what doesn’t. That also means providing you advice on what needs to be done to secure long term success in a relationship.
My goal is to inform people no matter which road they want to take, so they can make the most intelligent decision.
I’m also the creator and author of The Ex Recovery System, a book I wrote while I was in search for relationship answers myself. The purpose of the book is to provide a step-by-step complete guide to follow if you want to get back together with your ex. Within The Ex Recovery System I reveal some of the biggest reasons people fail, how to regain power of your relationship and the psychological mindset you must understand before jumping in to getting your ex back.
- Check out in detail what The Ex Recovery System contains
- Why it’s different from other products on the market
{ 4 comments… read them below or add one }
Hello,
I was wondering if you would be able to help me with a
problem I am having when trying to get my ex – girlfriend
back. I have broken contact with her for 3.5 weeks and have
now decided to contact her about the possibility of meeting
up. I would like to meet up with her “as friends” so that I
can sneak in under the radar and present the more attractive
person I feel I have become to her. I used to be constantly
seeking approval from her and she was the one in control of
the relationship not me. I want to show I can lead her and
be decisive when around her. I sent her the following
message:
Hey!
I just wanted to tell you that you were right… The breakup
was definitely for the best. It would really be a shame to
throw away our friendship though. I’m going into town at
some point this week to look for some new clothes to take
away with me on holiday. How about you come with me, you
could help me look for something nice. We can work on being
friends again, no hard feelings.
I thought it was a good message, but she replied with this:
‘Who said we’re throwing our friendship away??? I thought we
were already friends??
What should I say to this and where should I go from here?
Thanks so much in advance,
Chris Evans
I recently was dumped by my girlfriend…we were with eachother for a long time…i want her back but i was stupid and did the one thing i shouldnt of and told her i wanted her back and i contacted her way too much to try and “win” her back….she is talking to another guy…is it alright if i send an email apologizing for my stupid rash behavior and then give her space..we go to the same school and he doesnt and she wont do a long term relationship with him. do u think there is anyway to get her back
Hey Ashley Kay, I was wondering if you could help me, I cheated on my boyfriend, well, I was talking dirty to a friend on msn whilst he was doing stuff on webcam….
My boyfriend found the conversations and left me, this drove me into depression because he means a lot to me,we have been apart since 14 July. A few weeks after the break up we were meeting up and talking about it all. We were close to getting back together but when he wanted to cuddle me, I let my hands wonder and we ended up doing something. Us doing this made him think about what I had done and he had a go at me the next day, and since then, he’s constantly having a go at me, then ignoring me, then having a go again,I don’t know what to do,I really want him back,I love him so much,would you be able to help me please??,my friends keep telling me to move on,but I can’t because of how much I love him. I hope you can help me, I really miss him,:(.
HI,
My boyfriend of 2 years decided last year through a series of discussion that we needed to break up in order for him to sort out things and his life before we could move forward. he proposed we need no contact as that is what hispsychologist told him. I thought it was rather odd and grew anxious and obvioulsy sceptical about it. Xmas cam and he became somewhat obsessive following me around and started criticing me and accusing me of being with others. he went from mr adorable to Mr nightmare. Its now sept and he has contacted me on numerous occassions throughout the year includes drive bys by my home to cofee to texts to a surptise visit. he said he is working on his issues and is being fair to me by beig distant. It has had a huge impact on me and I am not sure now how to deal with it any more. I have bought ex back recovery but hasnt wokred. when i ask is there someone else or how is he going with his issues he says no to the firswt one and that he is sorting out his life but he remains non commital. he says he doesnt want to hurt me but obviulsy has. So it feels like form my end their is some other secret wheterh it be mental illness, a secret girlfriend or maybe a wife, or some other bizarre thing or perhas he is not into me anymore but cant tell me that !!!What a cop out. If I stay away and do no contact eventually he contacts but there are no answers. Very painful as i want to know the truth. He denies following me around although I saw it, ism not clear on what his issues are and says he cant give me a time frame. He says its not fair on me if he sees me….Am i dealing with a psycho ?I have gone mad but life goes on.