You might not realize it but you have major advantage over anyone else when it comes to making your ex fall back in love with you. Think about it, you had their heart once and that love for you never dies if it was true. No matter how long it has been, how often you talk, you’ll always have a place in their hearts whether they admit it or not.
But you want to know how to re-ignite those flames and have them burn with passion again.
So here it is: 7 ways to making your ex fall back in love with you.
Become free
If you’re in love with your ex and this is something your ex is aware of, it’s harder to make your ex fall in love because they know you’ll always be there waiting. People only want something they can’t have so by making yourself available to them they will not be as inclined to ‘want’ you in that way.
Make yourself scarce
Don’t allow yourself to be readily available to your ex. You have your own life that is separate from them now. Don’t wait around hoping your ex will contact you. Go out and do things that you enjoy. You’ll be amazed how fast things will start to happen once you’re not ‘waiting’ around for it.
Take care of yourself
Get yourself to feel good again. Do whatever that works for you to get you energized and pumped to face the day everyday. This could be going for a run in the morning, getting a new hair cut, learning some yoga or going camping. It’s amazing but when we feel down, the quickest way to cheer ourselves up is by moving around. So get those juices flowing. When you’re pumped and enjoying life, you pull people towards you.
Become grateful
It’s completely amazing what will happen and how you’ll feel once you are grateful for everything in your life. It’s weird but by simply feeling grateful, everyone around you sense that you ‘have’ something they don’t have. Like I said, people are desperate for things they don’t have. When you appear to HAVE everything, everyone will want what YOU have! It’s weird. You’ll glow inside and out and your ex will be driving themselves crazy thinking about what has changed!
Let go of the past
We tend to want to dwell on past issues. You’ll especially be driving yourself crazy thinking about what went wrong with your relationship and how you want things to be different. I want you to know in order to make your ex fall in love, you need let go of those negative feelings and thoughts. Not only will you make them want you, you’ll feel a huge weight lifted from you and that will show through when they see you.
Embracing change
Let’s admit it, no one is perfect, but what is worse is if we accepted that was the way things were and never welcomed and allowed change. Thing is, change is the only sure thing in the world. If we’re going to change, why not embrace it and try to change for the better. When we set goals for ourselves and take steps to achieve our goals, we’re not only building our self-confidence but you’re letting your ex know that you’re working on your flaws. Action speaks ten fold compared to words, and its actions that will make your ex fall crazy in love with you.
Lastly and most importantly, give love to yourself first
We have all heard the saying ‘you need to love yourself first before you can ever love anyone else’. Once you gain that unconditional love for yourself, you’ll no longer rely on others to validate your sense of worth.
For example if your ex made a comment that might potentially hurt you, you won’t allow it to bother you anymore because no one else’s opinion can mean more to you than your own.
When love is readily available inside you, you won’t seek to others for that love. When you stop needing love from your ex, it is then when your ex will give their love to you.
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im going out with this guy for 4 years on and off it doesnt seem to go anywhere i want to marry him eventually. how could i make that happen, or make him want that too? we’re back together now…
hi, my boyfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago. he says we werent getting along and we didnt get to see eachother much cos i was in college and it was getting to him. i thought we were in love. ive been going through some stuff and i wasnt myself, i think maybe i was pushing him away and i realised it too late. i apologised but he broke up with me a few days later anyway. i wanted to contact him but dont know if i should or what i should say.
spend some time talking about the future and hear his respond to that. good luck
i know what all of you guys are feeling. my x broke up with me i thought of ending my life but this site helped me . and now she ask me out again BUT I SAID ” SORRY AM TAKEIN
My boyfriend and I broke up 2 days ago.. And I can’t stop thinking about it and how much I want him back and I want to date him again.. But I don’t know what to do.
Hi, my girlfriend broke up with me january 5th, and it was the second time we broke up. A few days ago she told me that i might have another chance with her, but she isnt dating anyone until Valentines day. All the signs were given to me that im in love with her, and i dont know what to do right now.
my fiance broke up with me 4 weeks ago, I love him sooo much. I’m an emotional wreck. I know he is the one, the only one I have ever and ever want. my life is nothing without him. He said that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship anymore and that he has fallen out of love with me over time. I couldn’t stand to lose him! I wrote him a song and everything. What do I do???
I know the feeling. I lost my soulmate too. He said we weren’t getting along and fell out of love with me. This website says it loud and clear. But truly you know that a man is closer to God than a woman. Its possible that there is someone else out there greater for you. Your ex fiancee was probably ‘great’ if you get my drift. Just have hope this can go your way or get better. Don’t lose hope. God has a purpose for everything.
Well he dumped me 2 months ago and he said he didnt feel like dating anyone soon, then he asks out my friend. Then im going out with another guy, when i still have feelings for my ex… What do i do?!
You should just live with it…..nothing is wrong with liking 2 people at the same time! just dont try to act cool,because something bad will happen to you most likley…(embarassing!!!)
My boyfriend dumped me a month ago because he goes to a different school and we couldnt always hang out and he didnt think it was working. A few days later he is going out with someone else and i am still inlove with him. but i just act happy for him and dont show my pain. we still talk everyday like when we r dating. what can i do to get him back.
hi boyfriend and i was together for 8years on and off our relationship wasnt healthy, he wasnt happy with me cause of things i did and he dont trust me any more. he say he loves me but he is not in love with me anymore, we been broken up since 2 months now, the last time i seen him was january 25th our son bda yand the last time i talk to him was january 30th 2011 i havent talk to him since, he would call or text me at times asking how we doing but i never respone back. he say i broke his heart when i told him to move out and go see other people a year ago. the last time i talk to him he told me he dont want it anymore and he is not feeling me no more, he just want to friends with me not a relationship anymore. so i ask him “u not coming back he told me no not now not for a while? whats not for a while? i ask him again the same question” u not ever coming back and he told me, he dont know. i know i mess up and i got many chances and screwed them up, but how can i get that chance again? please give me some serious advice?
My boyfriend broke up with me because he feels that we don’t get on well. He broke up with me over a month ago and I still love him and it hurts. I really want him to give me another chance. After the break up I didn’t talk to him for a week and now we talk everyday like before we went out. I’m meeting up with him next week and I don’t know what to tell him and I’m scared what he will think and if i screw up. Please help…
all you got to do is not panic!, stay cool, show him how well you are doing and dazzle him with your looks, make him go WOW!, just chill with him, flirt with him show how much you have changed but still be the person he fell in love with!,
Well I have a special story. my ex-boyfriend and I broke up a 8 months ago, but the problem is that I dumped him.
Now after all this months I want him back, and I tried to tell him and he said he’s in love with someone else after all this time that he didn’t felt anything for any girl.
After 2 days we talked and he told me that it wasn’t something special and he doesn’t love this girl anymore, so now I’m wondering what is the reason he’s not coming back.
I’d like to hear your opinion about it and what could be the reason.
possible, your ex bf felt that it is not the girl for him yet, but if he will be in love again,maybe it will be you or not you since you have already a past that he dont want to bring back for the mean time. time will tell if you are really meant to each other.
My boyfriend broke up with me just yesterday, and I’ve been constantly crying, wanting him back. I love him so much it hirts, and I constantly hear in my head “We cannot be together anymore. I love you, but I am not in love with you anymore”. It happened so suddenly. He went trough tough time, right after we became a couple, and I left everything behind to be with him, comfort him, and slept over at his house every night.. And when he finally got back on his feet, I could not let him go and ended up spending every day at his house, almost craving his attention. It pushed him away.. It kept going for way too long, and now he is gone. Is there any posibility that I can make him come back? I truly love him, and he once loved me too. I have alredy read several articles, and I decided to give it a try. I miss his warmth.. I miss him..
i think if u just give him time and be friends with him for a while u will get him back…im inna lot of pain also but i trying my best to get over it and still get who i want back…what i am doing is working just give him time and keep in touch….be who u was when u first started dating…and u will have him back
Me and my ex broke up for 3 months already. We were together for little over 4 years. When he all of sudden told me that he doesn’t have feelings for me and more, and that he lost feelings for me since the second year. So after we broke up we still kept in touch little to min. During these 3 months I’ve trying really hard to go out with friend n try really hard to forget him. But I would cry and cry when I’m alone. I wonder if there is any chances or way to find out if he somewhat still cares or have feeling for me. I know I’m silly. How do I make him fall in love with me again. Thank you.
My Girlfriend broke up with me because her feelings for me had changed. we have been together for 2 years and have a 1 yr old baby girl. For some time i felt like i loved her more than she loved me, and i guess i was right. She at her parents house in california and me in Texas she was going to work over there bc she couldnt find a job in Tx shes been there for 5 months so far with our baby girl every day we text and some night call each other. She told me at one point that she didnt want to come back to Tx if it meant to live with my parents she wanted a house for us which i agree in so, I finally got the house she liked and started moving our stuff out to the new house on Sunday 5/14/11 and later that night is when she told me that her feelings had changed. Ofcourse i want her back shes my soulmate and its not right that we`re doing this to our baby. She said that she will be comming back for half of june all of july and leave in august during this time she wants to see if we can re-kindle our relationship which i really hope so not only for my sake but for the future of my baby girl i want her to grow up with her family. I need help what should i do to re-kindle our love ?
hi, i had this relationship with a gir,.actually we are both like really girl not kind of tomboy look.we are both happy for like 3 yrs and then since i am 23 yrs old that time i got this feeling of having relationship again with a guy, what happen was i cheated her and then the guy and me became bf and gf but then it was not successfull and just broke up after 5 months, the girl accepted me again and we just continued the relationship but all of a sudden i felt that she is not that sweet to me.one of the reasons because i cheated her many times, and most of all i leaved her because of someone before so she cannot bring back the sweetness that we are sharing before but still we are together.Its like i am the one doing extra effort to bring back the old feeling we had, I feel so guilty of what i did to her, because she is the only the person who can understand and loved me for who i am.Then she just broke up with me and i cant take it because i really love her.i did that before because of immaturity.im still in love her and she is not into relationship right now.She is not lesbian, i think i am the one, or i ruther call myself bi. i cant get over, it is already 1 yr. we are still friends and i am doing my best to get her back to me again but still she dont want.she told me that she wants to do the right thing, to have a relationship with a guy but then until now she dont have bf.and i have already but i still love her. i cant understand what i am feeling right now, i love my bf but i love her more.
what will I do…??? pls comment.
well i m madly in love wid a guy i broke up wid 7 months bk…..v bth loved each oder a lottt,everybody thought dey had never seen two ppl completing each other so perfectly……..bt then i told my parentsand dey emotionally blackmailed me to break up…..i live away in hostel…he tried convincing me bt i wanted to try hard enough to gt ovr him…..bt i didnt bt by dt tym he didnt want me bk coz he was sure ill leave him….bt i was serious…hes now been wid anoder gal for 3 months n dey seem perfectly happy….bt the problem is i still love him n its so difficult for every1 around let alone me to accept hes d same guy who loved me soo mucch……..is there ne chance we’ll be back…please please reply..:(
So, I dated this guy for about 8 months. I caused him to break up with me, primarily because I was quite aware I wasn’t ready for a relationship just yet.. and now he’s dating this girl ( WHO USED TO STALK HIM!!) , and they’ve been dating for .. about two months. And, Just Last weekend My Ex’ Threw a Party and I was invited. ( I helped his girlfriend be there.. just so I don’t look like a bitch, and he knows I’m trying to help.) So, at this party.. I pretty much told him I liked him.. and well. He was speechless. OH and at his party, his sister and her boyfriend ( two people he’s supppper close with) confronted me, and explained that they’d prefer myself with him! .. not her!!
I’ve made it clear to him that I’m not trying to win him back..
but lately I’ve been having more then 10 dreams about him in the past month.. and I’ve been writing looots of poetry .. and the Last thing I wrote on my tumblr, I gave it to him today.. it left him speechless. So I have noo Idea whether he likes me or not..
When him and I first Broke up.. he liked me SOSOSOOSOS much . it was unbelievable.. and the feelings weren’t entirely Mutual . Now they are.. and he makes it Seem as though he likes me.. But I can’t entirely Be sure.. I want him. So Badly . and It’s not because I see her with him.. It’s the DREAMS, and everyone telling me so . and How.. How Much Poetry is just pouring out of me… it’s.. how my heart.. feels when he’s near.. My Hands always shake, and I loose all train of thought. He’s all I can think about ..
His girlfriend only hung out with him like.. 2 times. as I’ve hanged out with him like a MILLION Times.. even while They’re dating….
The only Truly shitty thing is, his bestfriend Likes me. but eh . oh well. a lot of guys do . idfc. I want him . no one else. Help!?!!?!?!
Its your call, you know. I also have the same situation before but guess what, after we ended up together he broke up with me and blamed me every single thing about the past, im not saying the guys are the same just saying think it over, And over and OVER AGAIN…dreams are those of what we want to have and what we have had… does it make sense? this works though, Pray to God and ask for guidance but do not think anything liKe you are dreaming of something good that will happen between you too, rather clear your mind.
well my storys a bit lonq but ill wrap it up. so me and my qirlfriend were toqether for about a year when iupped and left her because iknew she was cheatinq on mee, it was just constant fiqhtinq and eventually ifound out it was true.its been about two months after ileft our house and althouqh istill think of her sometimes, ithink its best if ijust never talk to her aqain.imean she was the one who was cheatinq throuqhout most of the relationship.ijust dontknoe whats real or fake anymore with her.ihave been datinq and irecently qot into anew relationship with a woman who has been here for me throuqh the worst possible moments.should iforqet my ex? imean its obvious she doesnt deserve me.
you should forget your ex because its clear she is always going to be a cheater. a person that cheats once will cheat again and again and again because if you do try and fix the relationship, they know they can get away with it! it seems as though this new woman is the one you should be focusing on
trust me move on dont look back! you deserve to be happy 
i wish i could write but i just cry
I was with my girlfriend for 3.5 years before she dumped me. She said she felt like I took her for granted. I felt like she took me for granted also. This happened in October 2011. Then come December we hooked up again to only later in February she dumped me. Then in May we got back together for 3 weeks. I dumped her this time because I didn’t see how we would work out. Then yesterday on her birthday I went to her house and handed her flowers and told her I’m going to miss everything we had. She teared up and said she’ll miss everything. I told her that I still like her A LOT. She said that she still liked me A LOT. I grabbed her hand, she didn’t resist. I said this would be the last time we see each other and she said it would be that we’ll see each other again. I hugged her and gave her a kiss on the cheek. Then I left. While on the break she missed me. She saved the pictures of us on her phone and would look through them when she missed me. We even talked about having kids down the future; this was just 3 weeks ago. I’m moving to get my B.S. I would love to have her back. She can’t get over the bad things that happened during our relationship. The events that took place in 2010 were; my mother’s cancer, her mothers colon test, her sis, a false positive of an infection, then she really got an infection for something else, two suicides in the family, she had two car accidents, my unemployment, and my sister’s divorce. I have more to say later.
I get broke up with my bf but i don’t know then my friends bf said that my friend tell to my bf that i don’t like my bf anymore then i tell to my bf’s friend to ask him that’s not my fault it’s my friends fault but then he don’t like me anymore
:’(
my bf’s just recently broke up with me we were together for 4 years and says that he doesnt love me anymore were still friends and still see eachother but i want him back im head over heals for him and duno how to get him to fall back in love with me , everytime i see him i sit and chill with him and go out sometimes , but i always feel like crying :/ i need help on how to win him back can you help me please x
i couldnt imagine life without him =/ hes the one and only for me , we broke up couple months back and gave it another go but last week when he broke up with me he says that he wasnt happy and that nuthing had changed at all
he seemed fine and happy when we were with eachother for the past couple months , but i really want him back hes the love of my life please reply and help me !!
I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago. I have broken up with him 3 times and we always ended up back together. This time he will not get back with me though. He says it wasnt the same after the first time i broke up with him. We are friends but he still thinks of me sometimes and i still love him. But I am going off to college and he is not. I dont want a long distance relationship but I still want him to think about me and not get with other girls. I wouldnt mind gettin back with him in a year or so but i need my priorities straight for school. Is there anyway to garauntee he will be there for me when I get back?
i run out of love is gonna be 4yrs anniversary, bec he was so immature, played around, every stupidness i forgave. but the clock was ticking, and everythime to be hurt it was emptying me. in 3mnth i met someone one night stand, and felt different, n started relationship, till my ex found, and refused, got me back, but his attitude started to kill me again. so we broke up again. and i got back in touch with same guy again. my ex dont want me to go, dont want me to have another relationship, treats me like i am his property, but what shal i do to love him back? if we broke up like 100 times, he kept coming back, but cannot accept it anymore. this time, i thought is serious, n hes again feeling hurt, he dont understand how many times he hurted me, and sorry it doesnt touch myu heart anymore. i dont even want to have sex with him, he doesnt turn me on, and all i do he hummiliating me, keeps turning up whenever he wants to, he wants my love back, but i fed up, just wanna be happy, keep arguing, we got two lil children. i just feeling like to shoot myself, what a life , feeling hard to work all out, anyone who wrote here, wish he could write , n tell me y hes suffering, but aint giving me right thing. dont wanna waist my time by being emotionally down.
my ex and i just got back together 5days back..am soooo inlove with him,but he seemz not sure to trust me again coz i had an affair with sum1 b4 we broke nd he knew abt it.the reason i cheated waz bcoz i was desparate for love and he didnt hav nothing 2do with me dat tym,so i cheated on him thinking he will fil jealous and want me back.am trying so hard to convince him i love him and he says he love me too.but am not sure he really does.he says am de only gal that appreciated him and made him happy. will it work this tym aroud.plz help
I was with my ex for 4 years. We had a wonderful 4 years together. We have been separated for 9 years. Throughout those 9 years we both have been in relationship but nothing like what we had. We have always been there for each other because we have become best friends. Now after 9 years we are getting back together again. The love that we shared never died. If you want your ex, don’t give up on them. Whatever went wrong I am pretty sure you can fix it. Try and sit down and talk about it. Lay the cards face up and don’t hold anything back. Good things come to those who wait. Look at me!
What happened that you guys broke up in the first place? if you dont mind me asking? and how are you guys now? I was with my ex boyfriend for 3.5 years and we were so madly in love. Those 3nd a half years were the time of my life, they were amazing. Then one day we just started fighting. We faught for a few weeks nd i decided that since i was still young i wasnt ready to settle down and still wanted time to be a teenager nd enjoy college. Now its 3 years later, ive been with my new boyfriend for 2 years and my ex got his girlfriend pregnant so he married her to take responsibility. He messaged me on July 2nd, my birthday ( as he did every year since we broke up) but this time we actually started having conversations. Now were in november and we talk EVERYDAY. He tells me how much he is sorry for everything that has ever happened, how much he loves me and that he wishes we could take everything back. I love this man so much that i just wish we could run away together like we always talked about when we first met. The problem is, he is married now and has a 2 month old baby girl. He cares about his wife but knows that he will never love her as much as he loves me because we are meant to be together, and he knows she deserves more then to be with someone who truely cant give her their whole heart. He is an amazing father and would be their for his daughter no matter what and i would NEVER ask anything less of him. I have nothing against his wife and if we were to ever be together i would love his daughter like she was my own. He lives in North Carolina and I live in Indiana. I told him i would fly there just to see him for a weekend, to see how we feel when we are actually together, but hes scared, i know he is. Hes scared that when we see eachother we are going to fall in love all over agian and that he will be forced to make the hardest decision of his life. And i know that if we see eachother, that IS whats going to happen. I dont want him to think hes being forced to do anything because if he wants to stay with his wife i told him i would completely respect his wishes and would leave him alone to try and be the happiest he could be with his family. I just dont know what to do anymore. I cant go threw my day without thinking about him and how our lives together used to be and how much i would give anything to have him back. Through the 3 years we werent together i thought about him so much and i tried to stay strong without him in my life but i always knew that no matter what i did or who i met, he was the man i was meant to be with. Right when we started talking again i just knew that the love we had for eachother 3 years ago was still the same love we have for eachother today. I dont know who to talk to or what to even ask, i just dont know what to do. Thanks for listening. – Jess
I’ve been liking this boy for A year and a half almost and well thru those times we were on n off, but the last time we got back together things change I didnt felt like he loved me anymore, But i clearly loved him and still dont.. He broke up with me And said he didnt feel the same way for some reason now i am seriously bummed out but so far I am doing okay but miss him alot n what him to love me again. Now am kinda jealous cause of his status he post other girls on facebook. How do i know if he still ove me if he would never talk to me :\. any advice ?
A few months back my sisters friend was really into me and we got together a couple of times, he had strong feelings for me but i didnt feel it back. He has recently moved to england (im in scotland) and he came back for a visit about 2 weeks ago and i cant stop thinking about him.. Do you think ive missed my chance or what? Advice please!
My boyfriend broke up with me about 2 and a half weeks ago. We were together for 5 months. He said he broke up with me because we always fought and he only saw me like once a month. We kinda talk a lot and I keep trying to get him back but not he likes another girl. He still says he has feelings for me but I really don’t know what to do. Advice would help.(:
hey im not sure if this will help!!!
But a while bck ago me n my boyfriend broke up n he treated me like crap he kept tellin me he ddnt want me n me n him were brokin up 4 like 2 r 3 weeks n he told me he found some1 else n he ddnt want me now tht he had someone else and im close to my bf mom i always tlk to her so i asked her if he did have someone else and she told he dont but she kall him an see wants goin on n a couple hours later he texted my mom an told her i want irene bck tell her ill take her bck n he also asked my mom if he could see him WHEN I SAW HIM I CONFRONTED HIM N ASKED WHY LIED AN TOLD ME HE HAD SOME ONE ELSE N HE SAID WAS TO HURT ME AN MAKE ME JEALOUSE
im not sure but how can your ex have feeling for a girl n a couple of week maybe his tryin to make you jealouse or some or maybe he didnt care as much as you though but if ya’ll were ment to be he take you bck I WISH YOU THE BEST AND I HOPE YOU GET HIM BACK GOOD LUCK
I was with my ex for 4 months, for the first month or 2 it went good then we started 2 drift away coz she always used to make up excuses to why we couldnt make plans i treated her good but she didnt give anythin back hardly she didnt even let me come see her on her own birthday but after that it got worse everytime i went in for a kiss she used to move away or be like theres people there had me thinking like so what were together it shouldnt matter after that we hardly ever had time alone, i said to her maybe should take a break and she was like nooonoo so i was like ok lets see how it goes n a couple of weeks later just before my birthday she broke up with me out of nowhere and said she wants us 2 see each other but again it was me making all the effort and i went cinema with another girl but didnt do anythin and she found out but i apologized sincerely because i knew i was wrong but i told her the truth then after that she used it against me had sex with another guyy then went that went wrong she came running back to me sayin i like u again lets see how it goes so like an idiot i was like okk then she stopped speaking to me and it left me confused then i found out she liked someone else and didnt say anything and said she wants to be friends and now 3 months after that i think shes gotta new guyy n said she was going to tell me but she wasnt and she said she wants to be friends coz i was important in her life and we have the same circle of friends but i said to her i cant be friends coz i care about u 2 much for some stupid reason and i said have a good life and cut her off deleted everything not going to lie it did make me feel bit weird when i heard she was seein someone else but i dont care anymore. i just dont understand why shes so keen on bein friends probably trying to use me again for when things go bad? need help think i did the right thing by cutting her off?
i have a boyfriend im still with him but he treats me like crap i messed up a while bakc ago n cheated n flirted around but he did the same thng but he cheated n flirted around way b4 me n now he calls me a slut n stuff n this happened months ago n he acts like he ddnt do it at all but he did like 8 times n ive only cheated on him once n now he doesnt even wanna talk in he says he gunna cheat n talk to othere gurls again cuz i did it n yet again i havent flirted n cheated around 4 like months i regret what i did but how can i prove to him i love him in only him and i wouldnt hurt him again and how can i get him to stop hurting me mentally im only 16 n he’s a 1st to alot of thing i cant live with out him n i know he love me cause me n him been through so much n he nice to me wen i with him n im his 1st everything please help me IM BEGGING YOU i dont wanna lose my bf n i dont want him playing me ive been wid him 4 a year n a half n 2 weeks PLEASE HELP ME
You guys should consider counseling. It’ll work wonders trust me. I know you love him though and I wish you all the luck, love and blessings in the world!
My boyfriend broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. He’s been out of state working since the beginning of the month. He says its because of trust issues and about problems we’ve had in the past. When he left, he did leave with good terms but 2 weeks later he called and broke up with me. I am so in love with him, what do I do??
My break up hit me like a ton of bricks too. He had said I love you
on Facebook the day before. I was working through my issues, but I made mistakes on our last day.. Listen, for whatever reason he bases it on, accept that you guys broke up. Can you find why he doesn’t trust you without directly begging him? Try to be distant for temporary and remember establish that friendship sometime in a couple months I can’t guarantee anything but I give you all my love and support in all you do!
Hey my G-f broke up with two weeks ago, we tryed to work things out but she said she wasnt in love with me. Ive been trying to call her and text her but no reply, should i just let her go and then try later?
Just keep your distance now. But try to be friends later on. Also keep in mind, do not beg
there is always hope and I wish you all the luck, love and blessings in the world!
I dated a guy for about a year and then he told me he lost feelings for me and he broke it off. It’s been about 8 months since and we both are in a relationship. The last time we talked he told me he hated me. I still am crazy in love with him and seeing him everyday makes it even worse. Is there any way I can get what we had back? I haven’t ever been as happy as I was with him.
You never can move on from it? It’s been only 3 weeks for me, but it feels like a lifetime. As long as you exert your hardest, that’s all that matters. And your feelings matter as well. Are you guys friends? I know you’re unhappy, but has he seen your good side?
Hey. Me and my boyfriend have broken up like three times now but we keep coming back because I love him deeply and I thought he was too. The last time we broke up, he said he had feelings for another girl and I was just destroyed. I begged and pleaded for him back and he said he’ll give it a month. Then one day he says that this girl asked him out and he didn’t know what to tell her. I told him to tell her no because I still love him and that I’d give up everything for him. But he told me that he said yes to her and so that meant we broke up again. After that night, I didn’t feel anything. I guess it was shock, and the next day I didn’t speak to him at all. The day after he tells me that he misses me and that he wants to work it out. I was confused but I gave in and said yes. Two weeks later, he tells me today that he doesn’t feel like he wants me anymore. That his ex wants him back. I am confused he gave me a week to change his mind. What do I do?
Sounds so screwed.
You love him. And I can’t tell you to get over it because your feelings matter. Girls and guys alike want what they can’t have. Do you seriously see him as a husband and father of kids one day? If you do, yea, there are ways to win his love back. You need to make yourself less needy, or appear less needy. You need some time self improving and loving yourself, before you can go back to him. Never beg. You can be direct by saying I want to do something. Subtly show you care, love him, but don’t get too hopeful. I believe in you though.
So me and my girlfriend broke up like 3 weeks ago. Literally she “changed her mind” in 5 minutes. Texts me the night before begging me to come over to see her in the morning for breakfast among other things
. Anyways kissing blah blah then she grows distant in like 30 seconds and says I don’t think I love you anymore…we are both in college but our colleges are like 20 miles apart not even….anyways I truly like love this girl. She’s amazing in every aspect and I couldn’t hate her if I tried. I think she’s just afraid idk she just turned cold on me and I said we probably shouldn’t talk to each other/hook up for a while because it was just a bad idea. Anyways the night before I made a letter with a menu to her favorite french resturant along with a picture of us she loved and I want to send it but I don’t know…I mean I archived all the pictures of us on my computer and we agreed to de-friend on facebook (well I did nothing mean I just didn’t want to see her on my news feed everyday)…Idk she’s just driving me nuts. We haven’t talked in 3 weeks and I still can’t stop thinking about her. Of course I’ve been busy as well but nothing changes how I feel about her :/ advice?
I’m in the three weeks zone and I’ve been around my ex. It hurts so much. But for you, does it hurt being away? Girls are like that. They will want what they cannot have. I’m like that. I screwed up and that’s my biggest reason. You want to keep your distance, but you want to occasionally say hello. Show her you’re doing better even if you’re not. Try to be friends. Accept the breakup, but don’t throw out your feelings if you believe you love her. People will always tell you their opinion, but honestly, it’s up to you. I screwed up with my ex twice, people tell me it’s never gonna happen again, even my ex said that when I begged for his love again. Don’t give up. There’s a hope in everything. You just have to learn to be without them. Love yourself and know that this is a test. Make her fall in love with you again by being the best person you can be, and even if you can’t win her love back, try to be her friend. Oh and get rid of bitter feelings towards yourself, her and the break up. See this as a learning experience.
Hi all. Thanks for reading my comment. It’s gonna be a bit long but I’ll try my best to make it as brief and clear as possible.
So I and my boyfriend broke up around 1.5 month ago. We had known each other for couple of months through online dating and seen each other regularly during that period before we decided to start into relationship. Sadly our relationship only lasted for 2 months. It was mainly my mistake though, I was getting frustrated and kind of emotional until I decided to end the relationship. I felt like I couldn’t handle the pressure so I just decided to end it. Now somehow I totally regret it but on the other hand I just stay positive and be grateful. We’ve had so much fun ever since the first time I met him. He’s a gentleman and I know he genuinely loved me and not only obsessed with sex and all those things because we’ve never done it before (we both are Christians so we’re against pre-marital sex)
The problem was mainly because of trust issue but it’s not about cheating. Anyway, a week after we broke up he messaged me on facebook saying he wants to be friends as long as I want him to then he asked me if I want to hang out again as friends because he said there’s no point of being friends on facebook if we don’t socialize. I replied 15 hours later and he might get a bit impatient (I was so busy on that day so I didn’t check my facebook) and as soon as I logged in I found out he had removed me from his facebook. I was shocked and I replied that if I’m available I don’t mind to hang out (I tried not to bring up the facebook thing as things between us started to calm down a bit). The next morning I found out he’d sent me friend request again but when I wanted to confirm it, it didn’t work. I assumed he cancelled it. But he replied my message saying we’ll get a time and date soon.
Now it’s been almost a month after his last message. We haven’t contacted each other since then and I don’t have his facebook anymore so I don’t know what he’s doing (I don’t want to add him because he’s the one who removed me so I feel like it just feels right if he’s the one who readds me) I still got his skype account but even when we both are online, we don’t talk on there. I can’t deny the fact that he lingers in my mind every single day even every single second. I pray every night to get back with him and after we broke up I remember he said he just wants us to be friends but if things are going well in the future he wants to be in relationship again
What should I do? I don’t want to start dating with someone else because the fact that I’m not ready to replace him but I don’t want to wait for him either because this is something uncertain. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks
Sounds so bad :/ and I am deeply sorry. It’s been a while. Try to skype with him at least, I mean at least you’re trying. You may love him for a long, long time, but remember if you work at being his friend and always showing him your best side, you’ll find it’d be easier to win him back. I just wish you all the luck in the world. Ihate seeing breakups..over meaningless unnecessary things.
I miss my boyfriend so much! We was together for like 10months and I found out he was cheating on me and its just soo horrible I still love him though! We have been on and off for ages but I was soo in love with him I loved him better then anyone else and tbh I dont think hes gunna ever get back with me!:’(
I’m so sorry for you!
and anyways, if you accept the break up as a learning experience and keep your feelings for him, it’ll get easier. Once you’ve done that, become a friend. Show him you’re drama free, that you genuinely care no matter what, that he gets the best side of you all the time, I really hope this works for you and me!
As much as the regular thing to say is “he’s wrong for you.” etc. I don’t know your full situation. But, remember, only you can control how you feel. It may seem hopeless, but there’s hope, maybe a little, but there is. Even if he says I don’t love you anymore. I did. We’re never gonna date again. Listen. He might have been angry when he said things. You don’t want him to pity you or even despise you, so hold off on the begging and pleading back. You need time by yourself. Be happy
hey…… me and my girlfriend. we been together for 3 years and now we go break up one year ago but everything that i try to get her back… i try to cut all my contact with several times and talk to her again and it always the same….so i would like to know what else should i do now …please
I feel for you.. I’m so sorry. So you cut off contact with her for a while, correct? Well here’s the thing, you want to be friends with her again. But not show that you’re needy, always show her the best side of you when around her. Talk about how well you’re doing. Ask her about how she’s doing. Don’t beg ever, or bring up wanting her back. Reconnect as friends, let go of all your bitter emotions, be happy, and casually remind her of good times. I believe that 80-90% of relationships can be saved. Just have hope. But don’t think you’re guaranteed that chance. You can either have her as a strong friend or as a lover again. It’s up to them, but you can possibly make them fall in love with you again if you can be that person they first liked, loved. I wish yOu the best! <3
hey i broke up with my girlfriend because some guy was flirting with her and now shes with the other guy… anyway i could get her back?
Most likely, he is a rebound. Your ex will definitely still think of you. Despite the odds, I think it’s best to leave her be for a while. And then try to be friends again. My ex whom I dated twice. Once for only two months decided to break up with me, and he said I don’t think I like her anymore, but three months later he said I love you with his new phone he got. From then on it was almost two years, and this time he says never again.. Is this true? Or was it just a in the moment kind of thing?
But really, just be happy. She’ll notice!
Hey my boyfriend broke up with me 5 months ago. We sometimes still talk but the problem is that he says he wants to be friends but he doesn’t want to meet me. I’m going to the same college as him soon and I want to know why he doesn’t want to meet. He keeps on coming up with different reasons and I have no idea if he’s lying to me. I still love him and I want a second chance with him but he says he doesn’t love me. I also suffer from clinical depression and the break up is tearing me apart. Any advice will be grateful. What do I do?
Plz help me, I really want my girlfriend back We have been dating for 8months and around that time we hit that stale point which relationships hit. I had seen it coming and I was trying to do something about it but she wasnt trying to do anything. She told me I had to get myself together and then give her a call, turns out she was seeing someone else. So its hard to work on a relationship when shes already started a new one. I was good to her and I never cheated on her or anything, she would tell me about her past bf’s cheated and I never did. She leaves me for another man instead of working on the relationship. She dumped me one day and then was with him on the next,but it wasnt confirmed for me until I seen then a month and half after she broke up with me. I sent out the agreement letter on the break up a week or 2 ago, I havent had any contact and I’ve been praying like crazy..what else is there to do, just wait.I love her and miss her so much I’ve been staying busy and I’m doing alot better. I just feel that the relationship ended way before its time cause it could have been worked out I strongly feel that way. Plz help me when I seen them that day it crushed me I didnt let her see that it did but it hurt so bad, cause all I could think about was I was there were that guy was a couple of months ago.plz help some how you or somebody.
My boyfriend dumped me a few weeks ago and I did not see it coming. We dated for almost two years, but I felt we were in love with each other. I had this problem though of finding other guys interesting/attractive and obsessing over it, ultimately, I hated that trait about me and I was trying to change that. He also said that he had carried the relationship and that I didn’t care. But I did. He said that I didn’t let him voice his opinions and was scared I’d leave him. But if he did honestly sit me down and tell me how much it had hurt, I’d seriously listen. Anyways, I sort of unknowingly pestered him the lady couple of weeks about getting back together after college. At first he was like yes
and he hugged me tight and kissed my forehead while I was happily talking to him. However, last Wednesday he utterly refused to talk about it. He said “I’m completely over you. I was in love and now I’m not. I’m never gonna give you another chance. So please stop.” I mean it sounded nicer than that, but does that mean I’ve lost all hope. I still feel he’s the one, and I seriously want to make an effort if I ever get a chance. The thing is, he wants to be friends. We sometimes say hi and chat about small things, I try to be happy around him. I want to become a friend, but should I wait until I fully accept the break up? If he felt I was the one, before, can he feel it again? He’s moving to a diff. town in 2 years. We’ll be going to different colleges. What must I do? I want to respect that he wants no college relationships. I just really want him back. Would it be too late four to five years from now? How will I go about making him fall back in love with the old me? And how can I stay strong and be happier? I’m 17, he’s 16. But believe me, I feel that he’s special. My first love, my true love. I’m sorry, but please I need help!
Hello my girlfriend broke up with me a month ago all coz I didnt work or have a car
we was togeather 2years. all I do is sit in thinking about her every day and im always getting upset y she is out with some other lad she says she dont wont him and nothink is gunna happen between them there just mates but there togeather every night :-/ I dunno what to do and after 2years she says she dont love me anymore :-/ I loves her so much I would do anyfink for her 
. I realy need some help and advice on what I can do
Now found out today she is with him :-/
what up man, your situation is different from mine but I believe you can get her back easier then mine..What you have to do is get up go out and a get a job doing anything I mean anything that is legal. Try to find one that gives you about 40 hours or get 2 part-time jobs if you can get that holiday help is needed in places get 2 of those until you can find a final spot somewhere..Next save up as best as you can to get you a car something decent that can get you from A to B. This will show her that you are trying to do something with yourself and knock out some of those negatice comments she may get from people and friends of hers. Keep the no contact, and send the break up agreement letter to her when your ready…Get the job and work on getting the car…..
Thats what ive bin doing mate but there no work out there that I can.find .. Ive got a fulltime job lined up after Christmas with my cuz but she with.this fella and deleted me on Facebook and blocked my number she saying she dont wont nothink to do with me anymore she only left me as I didnt have a job witch is abit money grabing ! But she was saying not long ago that she loves me I mean the world to her she dunno what she would do without me an so on then a month later dose one with someone else and now she dont love or care about me at all :-/ I wonder if she ever
loved me :-/ she has made me fill so down and upset I just fill like ending It all I dont think there anyfink I can do to get her back
I know how you feel My girl said that same sh*t too about how she loved me and everything. Told me plz dont leave her and how she loved me so much. Then the next week she ended it without a goodbye handshake, and she didnt even want to try to work it out and didnt even give me a reason she just told me she couldnt do it anymore. She didnt want to work on it because she was already starting a new relationship with someone else. Now Ive been working on trying a couple of things that ashley kayers talks about, Ive done about 2 things so far and have a plan coming into effect sometime next month. If i do that and she doesnt come back to me, then I can walk away without feeling guilty,depressed or sad cause that means that I tried everything that I could possible do to try to make the relationship work and stuff..and she cant say the same..What im trying to say is dont end it I know your hurting I know your heart is broken.One of best things to do to get back at her is to prove her wrong.Let her see what she missed out on, go get a job doing anything fast food will do and car. Maybe change somethings about and I mean like change things that can help you for the good present yourself as a blend of the old/new you..All this comes when your ready to take that move forward cause right now your in the emotional stage…me im like 5-10% left of the emotional stage and im about 70% in I could give a rats asset about what shes doing and who she is with..keep your head up
Yer im just gunna have to do that .. Get a job and start my lessons and sort my ways out then try agen then if still nothink then il be upset but time to jog her on and move on … I just keep thinking by the time ive done this she will be bang in love with him and il have no chance but il just have to see… well thank you mairo
hi i m in a luv wdh a guy who is friend of my x. after dat we both start a relation nw he feel dat he is doing wrong if wl marry me his frnd tease him dat his wife is x of his frnd dats y he want to do break up wdh me coz of my past only and use to say he never loved me jst dong tym past wdh me he never loved me. bt i want him. plz tel me what to do how cn i get my boy frnd back……….
I just wanna say im sorry to everyone who’s feeling bad since they broke up w/ their bfs and gfs. But i gotta say, i know you hurt so bad and you cant ever imagine yourself being with anyone else but that person. BUT you”ll get over that person. You’ll go on to find someone who makes you much happier! Just give it some time and soon you wont even care about it. Surround yourself with friends and have a good time being single. its true when they say that the person of your dreams will come to YOU.
i think i’m in love with my friend’s ex.. i just can’t stop thinking about him.. he’s just friends with me till now.. n he says that he still loves her even though she cheated on him! i just get pissed-off wen he says that he still loves her.. am i wrong if i want him??
Can I Just Say If It Didnt Work Out First Time Round, Spesh Second Time Round Then What Makes You’s Think By Goin Back It Will Work That Time Round, Let Go Of Them And Move On, If It Was Ment To Be Yas Wouldnt Have Broken Up In The First Place………NEVER LOOK BACK!!!
xx
Hi.my bf broke.up with me about 3 weeks ago. We had been together and living together for 2 years and 6 mths. Im still in love with him. He.moved in with the neighbor until january till he moves to arizona. 16 hours away. I want him back so bad. I have to see him at work and at home. I went 3 days without speaking to him them he stops me at work and we talked for a few. Then he txted me his new number and we talked outside some.more. he said he’s friends with someone at work and wont.tell me who but they hang out. He says he’s not looking for.anything wither it be sex or relationship. I want him to stay but he’s got oportunity to get property in arizona. Isthere still hope for.me. I really can’t see myself.without him. I don’t see it over yet. He broke up with me once andcame back within 4 hours
My boyfriend left me in September because i was too needy and we were fighting because he didnt come to meet me and so on. But now i realise that i lost him. He doesnt want to talk to me nor meet me. I want to show him that am not needy anymore and that i have changed for him. But nothing is working. If i change myself for better he will not know as he does not want to see me. How will he know that and how can i re attract him. I want him back. Please help me.
Thanks.
I just breakup with my boyfriend a month ago? I m not sure when is the EXACT breaking up date… seems like after oct 18th our relationship be into a worst situation, but everything returning to be good as he said he will treat me like his lil sister, and ask me to be his sister forever, so that we won’t breakup anymore…
We had dated for 4 years.. we have go through alot of sad and happy moments, but now he is leaving Korea and went to LA for his study… (he went there the 2nd weeks and he wanna break with me already)… he said our point of view is different, and he has no more feeling on me…. is really suffer by then… and i keep on texting and calling him until oct 24th i only stop the bad habit… until now, on the 11 11 11, i sent a msg to greet him “happy 11 11 11″ and he replied “same to you” that’s all he replied… i don’t dare to call him as i scared that he will think i m very annoying, and didn’t sms him as well~ just that day a simple msg…
Me and his family relationship also very good, due to he went to oversea, i still keep in touch with his family… He didn’t tell his family that we already break up, but i do… i told them that we already broke up and went to his house get all my stuff out… because i found out there is another girl right next to him now, he said he haven’t date yet, but i m sure he already have some good feeling for that girl…
I really need help badly over here, as i really donno what can i do anymore… can anyone rescue me here pls?!?!?!!? T^T… i m totally hopeless…
me and my ex broke up 7 months ago. We have a baby boy together who is 8 months old. i just have a question! my ex told me a few weeks ago when we were talking that he wants to be with me but he just knows it wouldnt work out cuz all we did was fight! i really care for him and love him alot he gave me my first child. we would alwasys fight cuz his friends came before our son and it just pissed me off so much. and i guess i never forgave him for cheating on me i was so insecure after it. we dated over a year. He was the first guy i fell in love with. i just need help how can i show him that i love him. how can i get him back an be a family? my son deserves a stable family he is an amazing little boy who desreves so much more than this! i also feel my son will grow up an think its his fault we broke up. it had nothing to do with him. i just want my ex back and to be a family n i need help. we also manily faught cuz are familys kept getting in the way to. plz help me!
My boyfriend broke up with me on 11-11-11. And I really want him back. We are both Freshman in High School. He broke up w/ me because of all the fighting, and how he would lie to me, so I couldn’t trust him. We were dating for 2 years. And I know I drove him farther away from me, because I begged him to take me back. He is telling all his friends that I’m bi-polar and stuff. He made a fool out of me, especially because he took me back for like an hour and then broke up with me again, and he said I forced him to date me again. He keeps looking at me like he likes me still…but I don’t know. He is so important to me, and I don’t want to give up on him. But once my parent found out what he did, I can’t date him anymore unless he talks to my dad about it. I love him with all my heart and our relationship was very serious. Where do I go from here? I need him…
Hi my name is dulce and me and my gf where together for almost a year and i thought we where happy and …she seemed fine and happy all the time with me and suddenly two days ago she told me by text that she cant be with me and she doesnt know how she feels toward me ..and she left me with blank ..i dont know where i went wrong ..i keep going back and havent gotten answers
i luved him so much n i still luv him bt sm1 told him that i hav a 2nd bf..n since then he didnt even talk to me….i want him back n i can do whwtever 4 him
hello, my girlfriend broked up with me as it was a long distance relationship, and then got commited to some other guy, now i think they have separated from each other, i talk to her offen but i feel that she doesn’t show that interest she used to do before, but she cares for me she once told me……..and says that i won’t come back to u again as i’m feeling guilty of herself that she did to me….and once said that i won’t repeat the mistake with someone else that did with u……..but i really love her a lot….and i knw that even she also has feelings for me but she doesnot show it to me………plezz help me out of these thing..and give me some tips to get my love back, thanku
ok … well theres this girl and i really deeply and truly love her but we broke up because i made the mistake of going to spend time with another girl and it was on our anniversary i couldn’t be with my girl because she was mad at me at the time so i spend time with another girl NOTHING happened between us but my girl fount out she confronted me about it and i denied it . its been 5 months since we broke up and ive been trying every single day to show her that i love her and i care about her i even do her laundry, homework, clean her room, do groceries and ect.. she still hasnt taken me back and i have not been talking to no other girls i just want my life back . but just recently she fell in love with a guy she just met that she doesn’t know and hes 28 and shes only 18 she fell in love with him in one day and i constantly try to show her that i love her and i dont want to be with out her but she still wants this guy and im afraid of losing her forever can someone please help me ?
Hi there Tommie, I think the best thing u can do is move on. It’s like the more you show her that you care the more she’ll show you that she doesn’t care at all… I feel like maybe she really fell in love with that guy but it’s a rebound relationship.. If she really do love you , she will realize how much she wants you…. The more you show her that u need her the more she thinks that you will always be waiting and available … Try not to contact her.. Let’s see what’s gonna happen… For sure she’ll miss you… Good luck!
I REAALLYY need help! My case is a very difficult one but I would really appreciate if anyone could help me… This is like a drama…
The thing is, me and my boyfriend were good, but then suddenly he started saying that he liked another girl besides me… And when we broke up it was because I wanted; because I couldn’t bare the idea that when he was with me, he would think about another girl… The truth is that he said that he liked me very much, but that in his heart I wan’t the only one… So we broke up. As it comes to my bad habit, I didn’t talked to him anymore until one month later I decided that i should try to be friends with him again…
It has already been almost 6 months since we broke up and we didn’t talk much… But last week he asked me if I could help him with something because of an exam (something that never happened before even when we were dating…), and with that we started talking.
The conversation went on and on and eventually it came to the part when we admitted to each other that we wouldn’t like to see the other one with another person… And with that conversation we started talking more and guess what? my old flame for him appeared again…
I would like to know the opinion of you all about this! What should I do??
I broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago. We’ve been dating for 3 yrs and 6 months. I broke up with him because he told me that he doesn’t want to have a family someday and he’s not working as well. And then, I met a guy and we start dating. But then we start arguing non sense things. In short we don’t get along. I start talking to my ex and I found out that he’s meeting someone but he said they’re
Not dating. I’m so hurt but I know it’s my fault. Now I’m trying to
Get him back but I feel like he’s interested to this other girl and he said that he’s not ready to be my bf yet. What the he’ll is that mean? I don’t know what to do.. I need some serious advice.. :’ (
Ive been with my ex 1 1/2 years and i have a 2 month daughter with him. i love him so much and yet he continues to ignore it and push me away he always starts fights with me for no reason over the most stupid things and we end up fighting. i recently found out he started going out with a girl and he says he doesnt want anything to do with me or the baby. how can i get him back??? please help me im so heartbroken.
My boyfriend and I lived together for 11 years. There’s a lot of issues that I won’t get in to, but our love was very strong. He left, kind of had to (leave it at that), and started seeing someone that he just met the same day he left ( he moved out of state)!! Talk about heartbreaking. I didn’t think I would get through it. I compare this feeling to mourning the loss of a loved one. It’s been almost five months. At first we kept in contact everyday. Now this girl, if she finds out we’ve talked, calls and screams profanity at me, even if he’s the one that initiates the contact. (no telling what he tells her) Anyway, I stopped all contact, it just hurt too much. I was with him 11 years, I should be the one telling women to stop calling my man! So, he text me the other day, then he called the day after. I love him with all my heart, he’s the love of my life, I thought I was his too, (or that’s what we always said). This is by far the hardest thing I’ve ever been through (I’m not a young girl, I have grown kids). I see all these young people on here and I remember being hurt from relationships in my teenage/young adults years, but eleven years is a very long time and it’s different some how. The hurt is too much to put into words. After all this time I still cry every morning when I wake up and he’s not there. I can’t even sleep in our bed. Don’t know if I should just get myself better by not talking to him at all, or answer him. I’m so hurt. I have been doing things for myself. I started a home-based business and I do go out with other men, but don’t sleep with any one, just can’t. I pray all the time, and just want this awful feeling to go away.
If you hate his ex try reading I HATE HIS EX by Alex Cooper. I had loads of problems with my fiance’s ex and I have now resolved them thanks to the advice in this book! You can get it on Amazon! Definitely worth a read!
hey there everyone, my gf is going overseas to study next year for maybe 3 years and she wants to break up 2 weeks ago becos she wans to heal in time for next year so she doesnt have an emotional baggage.. i understand her point and wonder if i shld still send the letter to her? i mean i would wan her to still love me when she goes overseas and when shes back after 3 years we would be back tgt.. how shld i go abt doing that
So my gf broke up with me after 2 and a half years she is saying there is no way we are getting back together, is there a way to do it? she only sees the stuff i did wrong and not herself, i still really care about her and want her back but i hsvr no idea if there is even a chance let ne know what you think i should do cause no one should just give up after breaking up